Breaking up is a heavy topic, whether you love it or not, don't continue to hurt, since you feel unwilling to continue to get along with the other party, then say break up without hurting the other party.
Methods of indirect breakup.
You can slowly reduce the number of contacts and contacts with the other party, for example, do not reply to the other person's messages in the first place, reduce the number of meetings, and if the other party asks you out, you can refuse for various reasons. ** Less contact, etc., so that the other party feels that your enthusiasm for the other person has decreased and your attitude has become weaker. People are very sensitive in relationships, your attitude is different from before, he will have the first reaction, is you changed, or do you have a new love?
Let the other person know that your relationship has changed, and also let the other person's heart be prepared. Don't break up suddenly, don't say goodbye quietly, make the final breakup more decent, and reduce the degree of hurt to the other person, which is also the last thing to do for the person you once loved.
If you find it difficult to say directly or call ** to break up, you can also choose to send a message to tell the other party to express your thoughts about breaking up with the other party. In this way, you can reduce the awkwardness of the interview and relieve the excitement of the other party.
In the message, you can write down your feelings and thoughts in detail.
You can seriously dissect the problems of your relationship and the reasons why this relationship cannot continue to develop. Let the other person slowly accept your ideas and practices. Although you may not be able to get his approval, if you are so well prepared, it will definitely reduce the confusion caused by the breakup.
Pay attention to the appropriate words, be sincere in your attitude, talk more about your own shortcomings, blame yourself for the reasons for the breakup as much as possible, and under your persuasion, let the other party get out of the shadow brought by the breakup as soon as possible and start a new life.