In the process of getting along, many couples can't help but argue with each other about right and wrong, argue with each other, accuse each other of constantly quarrelling, such quarrels, they get tired after arguing, and they break up after arguing.
The relationship is like this, when you are together, you need both people to be willing and agree to be together, and it is different when you break up, as long as one party is unwilling to end the relationship. So in love, you need to run in, you need to change, you need to compromise, after all, everyone has different personalities, different ideas and opinions, and different emotions.
Many people have not suffered from love, so they always feel that they are the protagonists in love, and they feel that they are the most wronged people, and they don't know how to reflect when they encounter quarrels, and they always emphasize their reasons, so that the quarrel is meaningless, and after the mouth is open, the relationship between the two people is at an impasse, and you are afraid of breaking up and losing, so you need to redeem it at this time.
How to get back from a breakup after a quarrel between couples?
The first is that you still love each other, the contradiction between the two people is not too serious, just some trivial things, because you are young, because you are competitive, so you do not admit defeat, and finally lead to the escalation of the contradiction, so if you want to redeem it, the first thing you have to do is to shut up, talk less, listen to the other party more, since you have realized that you can't lose each other, you have to make changes, you have to show your sincerity, so the next communication, you have to say as little as possible, maybe after the quarrel, silence is the best way to express, As long as you try to minimize your own language, you can completely avoid the continued quarrel between two people, so that the conflict does not continue to escalate, so as to strive for more space for recovery.
Secondly, after a quarrel, it is easy to be impulsive, don't do anything out of the ordinary, say anything that hurts the other party's heart, the most important thing is not to make any promises, maybe you promise a lot of things that you can't do in order to ease the relationship between two people, it will lay a lot of foreshadowing for your future failure again, if you can't fulfill your promises, it will also make the other party feel that you are a person who talks big things, and your image in the other party's heart will be greatly reduced.
Finally, don't be reasonable in love, you can't say who is right and who is wrong, and you can't threaten each other.
The relationship must not be reasonable, everyone who has come to understand that if it is so true, your love must not go far, sometimes you know that it is the other party's fault, you can also turn a blind eye, after all, your compromise can be seen by the other party, only he feels that you are wronged, and when you don't argue with him, he understands that you are compromising for love, since you have made concessions, and love me like this, what reason do I have not to forgive you?
Love sometimes makes people lose control of their emotions and lose their minds, but you have to stay sober at all times, some words and some things must not be done, if there is a problem in the relationship between two people, when you break up after a quarrel, you always use a threatening tone to communicate with each other, which will make the other party afraid of you, and will not believe that in the future life, you can take care of her gently and considerately, accommodate her, even if you can barely be together, this gap will always remain in his heart.