In this world, there is a kind of person who always says that they don't want to be in love, but in fact, there is a person hidden in their hearts, someone they can't have. These people, they may have experienced the pain of love, or they may have been disappointed in love, or they may have been powerless in front of their beloved. So, they chose to close their hearts and maintain an indifferent attitude towards people and things in the outside world, as if they had seen through the red dust.
However, deep in their hearts, there is always an indelible shadow, that is the person they once loved deeply, and it is a person in their hearts that they cannot have. In the dead of night, that person comes to their minds, keeping them awake. They knew they couldn't have that person anymore. Maybe it's because of the passage of time, maybe it's because of each other's misunderstandings, maybe it's because of the tricks of fate. However, they still can't forget that person, they can't forget how that person feels about them, they can't forget the place of that person in their hearts.
So, they chose to escape. Escape from love, escape from intercourse with people, escape from your own heart. In this way, they try to make themselves forget that person and forget that relationship. However, the more you run away, the clearer the shadow of that person becomes in your heart.
In fact, what these people need to nourish their family style is not to escape, but to face. Face your heart, face your past, face your feelings. Only in this way can they truly step out of the shadows, truly let go of the past, and truly start a new life. So, if you meet such people one day, don't give up on them easily. Give them some time and space to slowly step out of their shadows. Because, everyone has their own past and story, and only by truly understanding their hearts can we truly enter their world.