The rebellious period, as the name suggests, is the period when teenagers begin to rebel, disobey, and want to be independent. This period is the most troublesome time for many parents. Watching his children suddenly become unspeakable, indifferent, impulsive, and rebellious, it was really nervous and helpless. But the poor children are at a wonderful stage of life and need our understanding and guidance.
First of all, parents need to understand that rebellious periods are not a bad thing. Although it may seem troublesome, this stage actually marks the beginning of self-awareness and independent thinking in the child. I want to break the shackles of parents and understand the world in my own way. Of course, this manifests itself in their immature way as rebellion.
Second, it is important to respect them and listen to their ideas. Rebellious children need a sense of identity and respect, and they also want their voices to be heard. When parents are able to communicate with them on an equal footing and listen to their thoughts and feelings, the challenges of the rebellious period will become easier to deal with.
Furthermore, develop their ability to be independent. When children want to make independent decisions, parents can try to give them the right support and autonomy to learn to take the consequences. This allows them to gradually have more independence, become more confident and mature.
In addition, parents should also give their children enough love and support. Although they may be angry and indifferent for a while, deep down they still crave the understanding and support of their parents. When they need help or are feeling down, parents need to be patient, listen and encourage.
Finally, setting a good example is also crucial for children. As parents, we need to lead by example by showing a positive attitude and problem-solving skills. When they see the way parents deal with problems, they will be more willing to learn and learn.