When it comes to their exes, some people have a reluctant and regretful attitude, while others have an attitude of indifference. But indifference does not mean that you will not get along with each other in old age, and having regrets does not necessarily mean that you will be reunited with your ex. On Tantan, a social platform popular among young people, the topic "Will you still contact your ex" has attracted heated discussions among netizens, and many netizens have spoken their hearts here.
There is a moment when I think about your ex, I don't know if it's good or bad, I don't want to contact you anymore, but he always shows up in various ways, but once something happens, you can't go back. This netizen has already said that he doesn't want to contact his ex anymore, but TA's ex obviously wants to try to save the relationship.
Such situations are not uncommon, and another netizen also shared a story. "People who are not living in the past are destined to be sad. I've been chatting with my ex all the time, why did she suddenly delete you, and fell out of love for the second time, should we be affectionate or free and easy in the long-distance run of feelings? Affectionate people are destined to be free and easy. ”
I don't know if this netizen is telling his own experience or relaying the past of others, but TA's story clearly tells us that some feelings are destined to be irretrievable. Even if you can still contact your ex, it doesn't mean that your ex still misses you. You must know that falling in love is a matter for two people, and breaking up is just one person's decision.
After the breakup, there may still be some regrets and attachments in everyone's hearts. But we should be more clear that the feelings that have passed away are destined to be irretrievable. Instead of torturing yourself with painful memories, it is better to let go of the regrets and delusions in your heart, send sincere blessings to your former beloved, and also say a complete goodbye to your past self.
Most netizens can maintain a more sober attitude towards their predecessors. For example, the following netizen shared, TA's words are worth practicing for those who are still reluctant to give up after breaking up, "We have begun to drift apart, and I also understand that we will eventually become passers-by, live well, and love the person you want to love." ”
When fate is over, don't force it. Some couples can be separated and united, but that's not because they can still connect with each other and slowly develop a relationship. It's because their relationship is always there, so they can always get back together after separation. But for most people, breaking up means never seeing each other again. Even if they meet again on the road one day, they will only say "long time no see" with an embarrassed face, and then run in a completely different direction with a little sadness.
The past cannot be traced, but the future can still be remembered. There are also a lot of gentle and kind single little brothers and sisters on Tantan, if you are still alone, maybe you can meet the one who is really worthy of your love on Tantan.