"When the flowers bloom, the wind comes. Behind these poetic words lies a unique wisdom about growth and self-confidence. We've all had moments in our lives when we face challenges, fear of the unknown, and doubt our abilities. However, true strength is not innate, but is gained through hard work and training, and when you lack self-confidence, the most direct and effective solution is to practice, improve, and break through.
Try to imagine this. Just like a violinist performing on stage for the first time, you may be nervous to the point of shaking your fingers in the face of a crowded audience and complex musical notation. But he knows that only by practicing day in and day out can he create a confident melody from the notes. Every bruise is a stepping stone to perfection, and every failure is a lesson to the next success. Basketball superstar Michael Jordan said: "I missed more than 9,000 shots and lost nearly 300 games in my lifetime. On 26 occasions, I could have won the game in the last minute, but I missed it. I failed again and again. That's why I'm successful. ”
In life, we also encounter all kinds of difficulties. Feeling anxious before an interview, feeling nervous when speaking in public, and feeling overwhelmed when trying something new are all signs of a lack of self-confidence. However, whether you want to be more competitive at work, become more comfortable in interpersonal interactions, or excel in personal interests, one thing remains the same: a person can only truly form and improve through continuous practice and training. own skills and confidence.
Take, for example, TED speaker Bridget Silva. At first she was also shy and afraid to speak in public. But she chose to face her fears head-on. After countless mock exercises, she finally stood on the TED stage to share her story. Her confidence comes from her familiarity with the subject matter, her mastery of presentations, and more. I've been there many times since I fell and I was able to get up.
So, friends, when you feel that your inner strength is not enough to support you forward, have the courage to step out of your comfort zone, accept the challenge, and practice repeatedly. Whether it's learning a technique or adjusting your mindset, it takes time and sweat. "The secret to success is to stay the course. "This is a quote from Napoleon Hill that should be the compass of our actions.
Life is like a marathon. When you are not confident, practice it, develop a calm temperament, and accumulate unyielding courage. Because those who have the courage to accept challenges and continue to work hard will shine their own personality on the stage of life and attract their own "new wind". In this process, let's witness our own growth and change from the inside out.