On the path of life, everyone aspires to live a good life, however, the standard of living is also different due to the different abilities of the individual. Some people, despite their limited personal abilities, are eager to present a rich image in the outside world, pursue the approval of others, and even spend a lot of money in many unnecessary places. However, in reality, it is not worth spending money in these places.
For the poor, they usually resort to relatively simple and crude ways to maintain interpersonal relationships, such as treats and gifts. However, you can't build a deep relationship just by having a treat to dinner. Really good people are usually not impressed by a meal or some gifts. As a result, poor people tend to associate with a group of useless friends who drink and meat because of this relationship.
In contrast, wealthy people understand that a relationship is an exchange of interests, and they do not spend money directly to dredge the relationship, but rather make the other person understand their value and role, so as to attract the corresponding relationship. Relationships cannot be built through money alone, and it is difficult for the poor to manage their relationships if they cannot find their own value.
The most important thing about getting wealth is to fundamentally change the way you think. Sometimes, instead of trying, you're working in the wrong direction. Wealthy people build genuinely deep relationships, are focused not only on their own interests, but also on how to create value for others, and are willing to share knowledge and resources to help others succeed. This positive relationship can play an important role in career and life, helping them achieve their goals more easily.
Once upon a time, there was a story about a man who worked outside the home and saved up a sum of money to return home and build a new house at the end of the year. However, when he discovers that he is surrounded by people who are richer than himself, he begins to fall in love with gambling in addition to his job. After losing, he no longer wants to work hard, he just wants to make a lot of money by gambling. However, in the end, he lost everything, not only his savings, but also foreign debts. Due to his high debts, he had to mortgage his family's house, leaving them on the streets, starving and cold.
Don't indulge in bad habits and don't spend money on them. It doesn't make you richer, it only makes you poorer. Instead of this, it is better to rely on your own efforts and earn money through actual work, even if the progress is slow, but through continuous accumulation, you will eventually get rich rewards.
There's a term in economics called "sunk costs," which means that what happened in the past and expenses didn't benefit you at all. If you continue to invest, you will make more mistakes and cause more losses. When we stick to something, we should consider whether it is worth it or not. If something has already started only to find out that it is destined to be fruitless, you should make a decision quickly and without hesitation.
For example, if we go to the movies, we are very excited about the movie before we enter the cinema. But when the movie lasted more than ten minutes, I found that it was not exciting at all, and I couldn't watch it at all. Many people will think like this, the tickets have been bought a long time ago, they can't waste it, and they always want to look good. I'd rather take a nap in the cinema than quit in time. Why not leave the cinema and use the rest of the time to do something else?
High quality and low price are the pursuit of every consumer. However, the reality is always a little **, a bit of a commodity, expensive reasons, cheap water is cheap. At the moment when online sales are prevalent, many businesses have made great efforts to attract consumers, under the banner of "full price reduction" and "low price" to stimulate consumer consumption. Some people who are carried away by cheapness feel that they have picked up a big bargain, but they don't know that they have not only fallen into the routine of merchants, but also bought a bunch of poor quality products. Whether it's a penny or a cheap and no good goods, it's all about stating the fact that you buy less and buy good. If you can't stand the low price, you will shop again and again, and the things you buy home are not idle and not easy to be damaged, which will affect the family environment and affect your mood, and the follow-up maintenance cost is too big to reduce.
Measure value and ** without bias. There is no end to the desire to be cheap, just like there are mountains outside the mountains, and there are cheapness behind the cheap, and if you use a limited wallet to deal with the infinite cheap, sooner or later you will not be able to make ends meet.
The world-famous Madame Bovary, Madame Bovary Emma is a greedy and vain woman who looks down on her husband, thinks he doesn't make much money, thinks he is not well-informed enough, pursues a life of luxury and wealth, and satisfies her vanity through usury. In the end, he was overwhelmed and cut off his life with his own hands. Moderate vanity can motivate people, but excessive vanity comparisons can lead you into the abyss. People who have real money tend not to spend their money on comparisons, they know how to create more value with their money, and every money spent is spent on a knife edge. Having a goal and idea is a great way to spend money.
There is no pie in the sky, there are traps in the ground", this quote reminds us of those who often dream of getting something for nothing. They aspire to get rich overnight, but they are not willing to put in the hard work and sweat. However, the harsh reality is that there is no gain without giving. The less wealthy people are, the more they like to dream of getting rich overnight and spend a lot of time and energy on this dream. For example, some people will **, buy lottery tickets, hoping to get rich overnight. But in the end, there was nothing to say, and the original money was lost, and time and energy were consumed. Instead of pinning your hopes on people outside, it is better to calm down, study hard, work hard, slowly save money, and slowly become rich.
Truly rich people will not pin their hopes on anyone, they will only do things that are beneficial to themselves, and things that can see benefits will not gamble with a fluke mentality. After a jackpot winner became rich overnight, he was borrowed money by many relatives. He loves face and has a kind heart. He borrowed a lot of money. Just a year later, his hard-earned money was borrowed by relatives and friends, and he became poor again.
People who need to borrow money are already at a low point in their lives, or they are a group of people who can't cope with life's difficulties. If you lend money to someone else, you will most likely not get anything in return. After borrowing money, you may be sought after by others on the surface, and others may say that you are kind and that you are a good person. But if you think about it, what practical things do you get?
Really wealthy people know how to use their money wisely and never spend it on choices that don't pay off. The numbers of life are sometimes predestined, but they cannot be calculated and need to be practiced step by step. Some people have to pretend to be ghosts no matter how beautiful they are in their lives. When you spend money, it just goes into someone else's pocket, and it doesn't mean anything to you.
It is not good to know your fate in advance, you will lose interest in struggle, and you will not have the opportunity to experience surprises. Someone else's words are the words of your life, then all possibilities in the future will be completely erased, in the end, it is not that he is right, but that you are led by the nose by the other party and become a pawn manipulated by others.
On the road of life, not everyone you meet is worth communicating, you must learn to get rid of low-quality social interactions, and it is smart not to spend money for unworthy people. By binding your money, you can save more money for a rainy day.
On the way forward, there are some people who are low quality in communication, those who mix, drink, have a bad character, or just get along with them for their own benefit, for the society where the three views always bring trouble and trouble. They can take the initiative to refuse to participate in the party and save such "face money", after all, life is their own, and people can really live with "face" when they live out.
"Waste of money" here refers to purchases that do not bring real value and returns, such as designer clothes, bags, and other items purchased in pursuit of fashion. While these things may seem face-saving, they don't actually make a real difference in our lives. On the contrary, these overconsumption tend to keep us stuck in an endless quagmire of debt, making us poorer and poorer.
Really rich people know how to stay away from the burden of debt. They understand that debt only increases financial risk and stress, hindering the growth of wealth. On the contrary, the poor are often trapped in a vicious circle of usury, credit card debt, etc., and it is difficult to get out of poverty. The wealthy have avoided debt and achieved financial freedom through sound financial planning and investment strategies.
In this materialistic age, we need to recognize that the consumption habits of the wealthy are different from ours, they are more value-oriented and quality-oriented, and they are more careful in managing their wealth. This is the result of their financial perceptions, social status, and family education.