Most gifted children will accept the following three points.
Introduction. Every family wants their children to grow up**. However, parents are often troubled by such longings. Many people think that exams are the key to their children's achievements, as long as their children can learn textbooks well and get admitted to a good university, they can achieve success. For this reason, parents accompany their children to read, sometimes force their children, and become angry when their children deviate from their academic trajectory. However, militarily, the best thing is to siege the city, and the best way is to siege the city. If you want your children to get ahead, you have to start from your heart. Wise parents use advice to stimulate their children's internal motivation. In this article, we're going to suggest three tips that can help gifted children well.
Guidance and care for parents for their children.
Guidance and tips from parents are necessary for the development of children's abilities. As the saying goes, "Parents are the greatest mentors to their children", in early childhood, they are curious about all kinds of questions, and often constantly ask "why". Parents should not get bored, on the contrary, learn to give targeted prompts according to their own preferences and guide them to do certain things. Parents should be encouraged and satisfied when they are in school, so that they can learn more actively. For example, if a child gets 80 in one test, parents can tell him that if he gets 90 next time, he will receive a precious gift. After children enter puberty, parents can actively answer their questions and help them determine their own direction and goals in life through communication with their children.
Extension: Parents' guidance and advice to their children plays a key role in their life path. Parents are the closest people in their children's lives. Especially in early childhood, they have a strong desire for knowledge and are very interested in everything around them, and parents can give them certain guidance and hints according to their hobbies and characteristics, so that they can find and experiment on their own. For example, if the child has a strong hobby, parents can let him learn a musical instrument or go to some cram school. In this way, the interest and development of young children can be promoted.
In addition, parents can guide students in a way that rewards and fulfills expectations once they enter the school. This creates a strong interest in knowledge and a desire to be rewarded. For example, parents can reward their children for making progress or getting good grades to motivate them to persevere. Such prompts will not only boost children's self-confidence, but also increase their motivation to learn.
When children enter the teenage years, how parents react is particularly important. Adolescence is the most critical period in a child's life, and it is also a period full of confusion and challenges. Parents should take the initiative to listen to their children's opinions, and guide and put forward reasonable opinions in a timely manner. Through understanding and helping their children, they can better understand themselves, find their goals in life, and establish their own ideals.
The talent of the teacher is silent.
The teacher's guidance of the student's talent is also a great influence. In English teaching, students are often ignored or negatively evaluated by teachers and students due to academic barriers. However, students with learning difficulties often have greater potential, and all they lack is confidence. Teachers should give timely prompts in the teaching process to help them change their understanding and actively participate. For example, a child who scores only 16 points on an English test should be criticized. However, the teacher did not blame him, but told him to memorize some words and write them down tomorrow. To the teacher's surprise, this student was able to take notes and memorize quickly. So, the teacher continued to motivate them with this method, and soon their performance improved dramatically. Other teachers have seen this shift and are taking the same approach to unlocking their potential. The classmate later described his learning journey as "groundbreaking" and believed that his achievements were accomplished under the guidance of his teachers.
It can be seen that it is not enough to rely on criticism for students with poor academic performance, but more importantly, teachers should explore the shining points and potential of students, and affirm and encourage them. Teachers should actively assess students and guide them to change their perceptions so that they can better understand themselves and realize their potential.
The admiration of his peers makes him stand out.
Allowing children to be appreciated by their peers is also a major way to develop children's talents. Children are easily swayed by their peers, and they all want to be recognized and praised. Parents can stimulate their children's internal motivation by developing their children's talents, showcasing their talents, and allowing them to be appreciated and praised by their peers. For example, if a child is very talented in drawing, parents can let him participate in a drawing competition and take his drawings to his home or neighbors to exhibit. When praised and rewarded, children develop a sense of pride and accomplishment, which leads them to be more diligent in developing their talents.
In addition, parents should encourage their children to communicate and collaborate with other gifted classmates. Socializing with outstanding classmates can make them feel their strengths and diligence, which in turn motivates them to learn. This kind of appreciation can motivate a person's competitive spirit and motivate him to strive for excellence, so that he can continue to improve in continuous progress.
Brief summary. Parental guidance, teacher's ability tips, and peer appreciation tips are the three main ways for children to develop their talents. Appropriate prompts can stimulate children's internal motivation and make them take the initiative to learn and grow. Parents should give appropriate guidance and encouragement to children, and teachers should be good at exploring children's strengths and potentials, praise and motivate children in a timely manner, and motivate children in the form of praise and appreciation. Only in this way can we create more outstanding talents and make due contributions to the development and progress of the country.