There are four main reasons why it is common for grandmothers to take care of children. First of all, the reason why mothers agree to take care of their daughters is out of love for themselves and do not want their daughters to suffer more, so they are happy to help their daughters bear some of it. Anyone who has been a mother knows very well how difficult it is for their children, and because of this, they will understand their children better, and they will understand their children better, and they will know their children better. As a mother, the first thing to do is to help your child get through the difficulties of pregnancy and childbirth safely, reduce their stress, and reduce the conflict between her child and her mother-in-law. Secondly, there is also a situation where if you don't want to have a conflict with your daughter-in-law, you don't want to take care of your children. Because the mother-in-law is sandwiched between her daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is difficult to make a choice once there is a conflict. Some mothers-in-law cannot help take care of children due to their own conditions; Others are unable to take on the responsibilities of caring for children due to work or caring for the elderly. In addition, some elderly people, even though they are in good health and have retired, do not want to take their grandson or grandson over because they are afraid of conflict with their daughter-in-law. In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-in-law is often in a very awkward position, and they do not want to become the center of the conflict, so they prefer to keep a certain distance from them. The conflict between the mother-in-law and the mother-in-law makes the mother more willing to take care of the child.
Thirdly, some girls do not want to quit their jobs and are worried about entrusting their children to their mothers-in-law, preferring to leave their children in the care of their mothers. They don't want to stay in the job for too long, but want to be able to earn money to support their families. Whether in the city or in the countryside, the cost of living is high, and it is necessary to get more money to pay the mortgage and other expenses. Mothers, mothers are not as good as mothers, and today's children eat more, mothers may not be as meticulous as mothers, and it is not easy to communicate. She wants her mother to take care of her son so that she can concentrate on her work. Therefore, some mothers-in-law want to take care of children, but they are opposed by their daughters-in-law.
Third, some families cannot afford to hire a temporary one, and even if they can, they are reluctant to entrust their children to a stranger. There are always more poor people than rich people, and many families face financial difficulties. With this money, you can stay at home and take care of your children with peace of mind, and you can also ensure your quality of life. If you don't want to leave this world and want to continue working, you can hire a full-time housewife to take care of you. However, some people don't have the financial resources to hire a babysitter. So, he had to rely on his mother. Some families do hire a temporary caregiver, but they have to bring their mother with them to ensure their work. In short, money is a big problem when you don't have enough financial resources, and with money, you don't have to work for your children anymore and can enjoy life to the fullest.
In general, there are many reasons for grandmothers to take care of children, such as mothers who feel sorry for their daughters, mothers-in-law who are unwilling to conflict with their daughters-in-law, daughters who are unwilling to resign, and whose family economic conditions are not good and cannot hire a nanny. Every family's situation is different, and so are grandmothers' reasons for taking care of their children.