At a time when the problem of singles has not yet been fully resolved, five strange phenomena have emerged in rural areas.
In recent years, the phenomenon of "difficulty in marrying a wife" in rural areas has become increasingly prominent and has become a common problem. In rural areas, the number of singles is growing day by day, and some of them are still in the palace of marriage after reaching the age of 30, which makes people ponder the reasons for this. At a time when the problem of singles has not yet been solved, there are five strange phenomena in the countryside, and we will reveal the mystery of them.
First of all, the cost of marriage in rural areas is rising. Traditionally, marriage is a beautiful time for two people to spend their lives together, but nowadays, marriage is seen by some as a transaction, leading to rising costs of marriage in rural areas. This phenomenon is not normal, after all, the economic conditions of rural families are relatively limited, and many families are not wealthy, and they have to borrow money to get by in order to marry their children.
Second, young people after marriage are generally reluctant to have children. This phenomenon was initially widespread in large cities, but has now spread to rural areas. Young people are burdened with heavy debt pressures and fear that they will have to take on more household expenses and parenting responsibilities after childbirth, which leads to fertility resistance.
Third, the divorce rate among young people in rural areas continues to rise. In recent years, the issue of the rising divorce rate has attracted widespread attention. Many people can't help but ask: why is the divorce rate getting higher today? In addition to the impact of the environment, economic pressure is also an important reason. In rural areas, many young people choose to work outside the home after marriage, and live apart from their spouses for long periods of time, leading to emotional estrangement. Coupled with the lack of in-depth understanding between the parties, marriage becomes dispensable for them. Therefore, once there is a rift in the relationship, they are more willing to choose divorce. Unlike in the past, when rural people were reluctant to divorce because of face problems, young people today are more rational and understand that their youth is precious and cannot delay the future because of marriage.
In addition, houses and cars in rural areas have been idle for a long time. In order to save face, many rural families do not hesitate to spend huge sums of money to buy real estate and scooters in the county. However, the reality is that young people are reluctant to live in the county and prefer to work outside the county. This has led to the lack of use of houses and cars in the county for a long time, resulting in unnecessary waste.
Finally, the practice of lavish burials and poor maintenance has intensified in rural areas. I don't know when a strange phenomenon began to prevail in the countryside: the elderly were not treated well and filial piety when they were alive, but after they died, they had to hold a grand funeral. The children behaved in grief at the funeral to show their filial piety. However, this kind of filial piety is only done for others to see, and the real filial piety is only clear to them in their own hearts.
To sum up, these bizarre phenomena in rural areas are worth pondering. We should pay attention to the problem of single-mindedness in rural areas and the reasons behind these phenomena and take effective measures to solve them. Only in this way can rural areas glow with a more harmonious and beautiful scene.