Interactions between relatives are becoming more and more scarce, and family affection is becoming less and less indifferent
The voice of the family became distant"。
In rural areas, there is less and less interaction between family members, mainly because of the widening gap between rich and poor. In the past, relationships between rural family members were intimate, frequent, and comfortable. Boats and mountain roads are picturesque and practical means of transportation, and villages are connected to each other, so that messages can be transmitted smoothly. On the second day of the Lunar New Year, a piece of bacon, a bottle of wine, and a bag of sugar from my uncle's house became gifts for the hurried march. Family affection and neighborhood affection are blended together, and delivery of information has become the norm in the local area. Every Chinese New Year's Eve, the city's crowded dockside becomes a place for family and friends to gather, exchange information and trade agricultural products. But nowadays, with the passage of time and the changing environment, communication between family members seems to have faded.
1) "Family bonds, closed information"
In the past, the village exchanged messages and family members helped each other, forming a network of relatives. Nowadays, with the advancement of urbanization, farmers go out to work, and the distance between rural relatives is getting farther and farther away. Red envelopes and ** have replaced direct greetings, and the customs of New Year's greetings on mountain roads cherished by the old people have gradually been lost. The bustle of the city makes the countryside seem cold and lonely, ** text messages replace face-to-face communication, the connection between relatives gradually fades, and the temperature of family affection seems to fade over time.
2. "Relatives who travel together but live separately"
Nowadays, many rural areas have long forgotten the famous New Year's greetings, and the once frequent family gatherings have decreased. Rural people are not highly educated and are often criticized for their frankness, while people in the city pay attention to demeanor and do not touch other people's private family affairs. From the initial family affection to today's cold eyes, the connection between family members has become less and less, and money and material things have gradually weakened the emotional bonds between family members.
3. "The gap between rich and poor and the disappearance of family ties"
Life changes often hide unspeakable worries. Rural snobs observe the material changes around them, and the gap between the rich and the poor is deepening. Some are becoming more affluent, while others continue to live on a tight margin. The gap between the rich and the poor makes relatives suspicious of each other: the rich do not want to be seen as wealthy, and the poor are afraid of harassing themselves by those who lend them money. This contradiction has led to the old family ties becoming more and more estranged, and the indifference has led to the drifting of relatives.
4) "Neighbors who moved away"
Ties between family members seem to have lost their former warmth, with young people leaving for work and older people staying in the countryside, and opportunities for family reunions are diminishing. The fast pace of city life has made time scarce, ** and text messages have replaced direct greetings, and family affection has disappeared. The stories of the countryside seem to be disappearing, visiting relatives is becoming more and more superficial, and the triviality and hustle and bustle of life make family affection dull and boring.
5. "Money is turbulent, people's hearts are scattered"。
At the intersection of money, family affection seems to be torn apart by indifference. The gap between the rich and the poor is gradually widening, and former relatives have become hesitant. The indifference of the elders to the younger generations is becoming more and more difficult to overcome, and the wheels of time are turning, leaving behind deep nostalgia and a faint regret. The fire of family affection seems to have been eroded by the wind and rain of reality, and it has gradually lost its former warmth.
6) "Family affection in the past, waking up from a dream"。
Looking back suddenly, those emotionally intertwined years seem to be still in front of me. The red-hot village shines brightly in my memory. However, the cruelty of reality has worn away the edges and corners of tenderness, and the exchange of family affection has become scarce. I used to think that the connection between loved ones had become so cold, and behind the silence was endless longing and long-term disappointment. Perhaps, only in the memories can we once again feel the family affection that blood is thicker than water, warm and sincere.
7 Summary. In today's countryside, there is less and less communication between relatives, and kinship seems to be becoming more and more indifferent. The widening gap between the rich and the poor and the rapid changes of the times mean that the originally inseparable family relationship has gradually drifted apart. The mountains and rivers that were once not hurt by emotional bonds now seem to have passed away with the wind. Perhaps, in our busy lives, we need to stop more, pay attention to those who have passed by their loved ones, cherish every encounter, and let the bond of family affection continue in the torrent of reality. Because family affection is the softest bond in life, but even on the way forward, we can never run out of coordinates.