It has been said that children are a mirror of adults, your reflector and living memory. That's right, children's speech and behavior will come out from time to time Some things that adults usually say, as the so-called: children's words are unscrupulous, good and bad. So, there are always such scenes, in public and crowded places, children can say something that makes you unbelievable, sometimes embarrassing, sometimes comforting, sometimes annoying, sometimes surprising - but no matter what, the child's heart is pure, and the child's conscience is ignorant. The best person to guide him at this time should be his father, in the eyes of the child, his father is a mountain full of toys, an invincible super soldier is the big puff-mushroom in Plants vs. Zombies, and a magician in his favorite fairy tale. I'm just on the road to educating children, I'm going through it, and I haven't had a say yet. But from my experience and insight, I want to reach a tacit understanding with my child and let him have loving humor and perseverance!
Speaking of humor, I'd like to mention the German comic book master Ai. Profound. Braun's Father and Son. Anyone who has read this comic book is amazed by the comical and clever ideas in it, and when I bought it for my child and read it with him on my lap, the real and natural emotions are unique. Free-range without losing politeness, etiquette without losing humor, humor without losing love - the characters in the picture of "Father and Son" are more like elf dancers, using smart body language to express the deep love of father and son. Some chapters are witty and humorous, making you laugh; Some chapters are as dense as weaving, highlighting the deep love of licking calves; Some chapters are righteous and awe-inspiring, and they are not coquettish to ugly whipping, just like a pair of positive "good brothers", fighting like men.
Let's not talk about what kind of social background and the imprint of the times the comic master created such works, but the author's capture, refinement and sublimation of the unique blood feelings of human beings and the details of life can be said to have reached the realm of perfection. Reading such cartoons with children, explaining the fun to them from time to time, sharing the joy from the heart, and understanding love and respect is undoubtedly a vivid growth lesson and a key to open the window of the child's heart.
The function of a good book is undeniable, and a good movie is just as beneficial. According to the American ** home Kao Mack. The film adaptation of McCarthy's "The Road" depicts a realistic or surreal father-son relationship. Under the curtain of gray travel and future suspense, the real cruel reality has come, and a catastrophe has swept not only the material world, but also the spiritual home of mankind. The parable of the aftermath of the great destruction of human civilization shows the crisis facing our world, and it is more important to face up to the present, to pay attention to reality, and to let children experience the difficulties encountered and the hardships of life, than to rehearse a children's play. A father and son walk through the cold ruins of the city and the desert desert, and a supermarket cart with blankets, tarpaulins, canned food that hasn't spoiled along the way, and a pistol with only one bullet left with them – all their belongings. In this harsh living environment, the young child and the father who protects the child portrays a kind of hope for the continuation of human beings themselves, and is also a testament to the eternal existence of humanity with kindness and love.
That scene reminds me of the poem of the famous scholar Xie Jin of the Ming Dynasty: The tiger is the respect of a hundred beasts, who dares to touch its anger, only the love of father and son, step by step. In the end, the father finally collapsed due to illness and injury, and the son, who was in a state of panic, took a pistol and walked alone on the road under his father's last words. This sorrow should not have been put in advance, but if we only give our children the sweetness of good times and the joy of pleasure, then in the adversity and ups and downs of life, what kind of literacy do they use to face these events or disasters that must be faced? The expressiveness of the film is more of an artistic tension, rendering and neutralizing a certain restless emotion, although this emotion is subtly transformed into a certain situation in reality, but what really moves us is the idea of the movie, the alternation between father and son in "Doomsday Danger" is a kind of human spirit adhering to and carrying forward, that is, human willpower will be tempered in hardship and become the source of human development.
For children's growth, although a book and a movie are only details and past experiences, if you can really learn the quality of being a human being from them, it will be a great victory and a respectable memory for the individual. Children and fathers are experiencing life, but also in the inspiration and perception of the surrounding things have a new understanding, but the quality of life is not a sensitive character can capture something, and because of this, the father for the child's quality and moral cultivation and indoctrination is particularly important, as the so-called: do things for a while, be a man for a lifetime, can let children establish an excellent character from an early age, this is the precious wealth that parents should devote themselves to giving their children.