Two common misconceptions are: Can hard work and prosperity and being nice to girls win their affection?
First of all, hard work and prosperity are not achieved through hard work alone. For example, look at the sweeping aunts and food delivery guys, who are diligent until they get up early and stay late, but they don't make any money. The reason lies in their inefficient way of working. There is nothing wrong with diligence in itself, but inefficient diligence is futile.
To make money, mental work is more important than physical work. The right way of thinking and acting is more effective than a mere investment of time. Human physical strength is limited, and as we age, our physical strength gradually declines. So, even if you can deliver food at the age of 20 or 40, it doesn't mean that you can still do the same job at the age of 60. In addition, time is limited. Even if you earn 50 yuan an hour and work 10 hours a day, you can only earn 500 yuan a day.
You ignore the role of accumulation and leverage, and poverty is a punishment for your neglect and ignorance. Wealthy bosses make a lot of money because they use labor leverage to get more people to help them make money. The reason why I can make money is because I use traffic leverage.
Therefore, many people are poor all their lives, not because they don't work hard, but because they work too hard and don't have time to think about why they work so hard and don't make money. This kind of effort only makes people numb, like being too busy to have time to think.
Part-time work turns a person into a donkey who can only pull and grind, and you have never thought about why you should grind? Why do you want to keep grinding? Why do you get so little reward even though you've been grinding?
Only by jumping out of this kind of grinding behavior will you find that you can not be a donkey, you can command others to be donkeys, and let others pull the grinding for you. Change the way you think, and the world will become a bigger place.
If you keep staring at one point, you can't see the whole picture. Therefore, there is no inevitable relationship between hard work and making money, and there is no inevitable relationship between reading and making money. Associating unrelated things together can only lead to pain.
Why are many people very good to girls, delivering milk tea, ordering takeout, watching movies, inviting them to dinner, and finally only getting a sentence of "You are a good person"? It's because you're thinking wrong, you're in the wrong posture, you're in the wrong strategy. Girls are meant to attract, not pursue.
Migrant workers must earn income through other means in order to have a deeper understanding of making money. Otherwise, the knowledge of wealth for a one-year part-time job and a ten-year part-time job is not as rich as that of an entrepreneur for one year.
Really smart people don't expect to get rich by working part-time, and people who are really good at pursuing girls don't rely on blind pursuit to get love.
When you can make money, money will come to you. When you can attract a girl, it's not because of how nice you are to her, but because she thinks you're good.
Your worldview does not depend on the world itself, but on how you see the world and what your perspective is. The people at the bottom see a world where they hurt each other and fight for small interests; And the world that the upper class sees is one that supports each other, expands the cake together and divides it equally.
In life, it is the right order to get rid of poverty first and then solve the problem of singleness. Please keep moving towards the top of society.
Only in the process of constantly crossing the hierarchy can you constantly refresh your perception of the world, otherwise many of your cognitions are wrong.