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Wen Qiaomu. In the family, parents often use some "difficult" ways to cultivate their children's hard-working, independent thinking and financial management skills.
This seemingly harsh way of education contains deep love behind it.
Really smart parents will not do these three things for boys, nor will they add scarcity to their children in life.
Only parents who pretend to have the ability will embarrass their children in these three things.
1.Hardship: Cultivate tenacity.
Parents may deliberately let them face some difficult situations by creating some difficult situations in front of their children, which is to cultivate their tenacity and optimism. This "embarrassment" is not motivated by malice, but out of concern for the challenges of the child's future life.
Gao Ming's parents, who did not provide him with excessive living expenses during his school years, taught him to be frugal and self-reliant. Although it was hard at the time, this experience developed his independence and allowed him to adapt better in society.
2.Education: Encourage independent thinking.
Inspiring children to take the initiative to learn is what parents should do. Some parents may deliberately give their children difficult questions so that they can develop independent thinking skills in the process of solving problems.
This approach aims to stimulate children's interest in learning and develop their ability to actively explore knowledge.
For example, in the case of 14-year-old Otaku who encountered a challenge in his studies, his parents did not immediately solve the problem for him, but encouraged him to find a solution through independent learning and independent thinking.
This approach develops the child's independent problem-solving skills and provides strong support for him in complex situations in the future.
3.Money: Develop financial awareness.
The importance of educating parents about financial management is a big deal, but some parents may deliberately embarrass their children when it comes to money and teach them the importance of financial management. By restricting pocket money and requiring children to work on their own to earn pocket money, they can have more financial autonomy and cultivate a sense of financial management.
Mao Mao, a college student, was financially strapped during his college years, and his parents no longer provided pocket money, so he learned to better manage his finances by working on his own. This experience has made him more cautious about money in the future, and he has learned to spend and plan his finances wisely.
In fact, really smart parents will understand that the "difficulty" of love creates a strong soul. In the process of "embarrassing" their children, parents who pretend to be capable aim to cultivate their hard-working, independent thinking and financial management skills.
Although this method may seem harsh, there is a deep love behind it. Enduring hardships can cultivate tenacity, education can guide independent thinking, and money can cultivate financial concepts.
Parents' "embarrassment" is not to make their children suffer, but to hope that they will be able to have a strong soul and enough wisdom in the face of life's challenges.
By understanding their parents' intentions, children can grow up better and pass on this love to their future families.
To be a parent who can really be good for the child, so that the child can understand the painstaking efforts of the parents, and after the child grows up, he will have the ability to create wealth and live a good life.
Thank you for your love, I am Qiao Mu, the author of millions of leopard prints, a professional emotional counselor, focusing on intimate relationship repair, emotional marriage recovery.