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Wen Qiaomu. In the vicissitudes of life, there are some middle-aged women who lack love all year round, and they exude bitterness, melancholy and exhaustion.
These three characteristics profoundly reflect the emptiness and helplessness in their hearts, and the lack of love in their bodies is obvious to women, these characteristics are particularly obvious, and they can't be hidden.
1.Bitterness: The heaviness of life.
The pressure of life and the torment of the soul make middle-aged women who lack love bear the weight of life all year round, and they may have experienced various difficulties in career, family, interpersonal relationships, etc.
This makes them feel bitter in the depths of their hearts, and the accumulation of several years has made their hearts even heavier.
Forty-year-old Aunt Wang, she has been under pressure at work for a long time, and the family also bears the responsibility of taking care of children and the elderly. Her face was constantly tired, and she traded her pain for the stability of her family and the happiness of her children.
2.Sorrow: a helpless mind.
The interweaving of loneliness and helplessness is that middle-aged women who lack love may be deeply lonely, and they suffer a sense of helplessness in the depths of their hearts. This state of gloom makes it difficult for them to find an outlet for life, and their hearts are gradually immersed in boundless worries.
Aunt Ma, who has lived alone for a long time, lacks the company of family and friendship in her life, she often sits alone in front of the window, and her eyes reveal a deep grievance. She fills the emptiness with her thoughts, but she can't get rid of the loneliness in her heart.
3.Dryness: The depletion of the mind.
The lack of love leads to the exhaustion of the soul, so that these middle-aged women gradually become exhausted in their hearts due to the lack of love and care.
In a state of lack of love for a long time, their hearts seem to have lost their vitality, becoming a dry land, and it is difficult to breed seeds of hope.
44-year-old Aunt Lan has been indifferent to family affection and social rejection for a long time, and her heart has gradually become calm and exhausted. She has lost her enthusiasm for life, as if there are no more ripples in her heart.
Conclusion: Listen to the call under the bitterness.
The bitterness, sorrow, and dryness exuded by these loveless middle-aged women are a true portrayal of life.
We cannot ignore their inner calling, let alone turn a blind eye to their loneliness. Perhaps, we can have more love and understanding in our daily lives.
Through listening and companionship, we may be able to irrigate a ray of vitality in this dry land. A middle-aged woman who lacks love not only needs care from the outside world, but also needs inner self-healing.
Through the depth of their bitter hearts**, we may be able to build a bridge between people and pass on warmth to those souls who lack love.
If a woman is not prepared for being single for a long time, and she does not want to live this life by herself, then she should get married and have children as soon as possible at the most suitable age, which is best for herself.
Thank you for your love, I am Qiao Mu, the author of millions of leopard prints, a professional emotional counselor, focusing on intimate relationship repair, emotional marriage recovery.