We must all have such an experience, sometimes it is in a vague occasion, I met a person, but I instantly had a special feeling, as if I was electrified. And then you might think, why am I so attracted to him, her? Actually, it's a bit of a psychology here. Let's analyze the reasons why we are easy to like others, and I hope it can help you better understand the emotions in your heart
1.Remember the first glance: The feeling of meeting for the first time is especially important.
First impression, that is, when we evaluate a person, we often judge it based on how we feel at the beginning. When we meet someone for the first time, our heads will quickly write down the other person's appearance, expression, voice, etc., and then judge the degree of liking or disliking for him or her. If the first impression is good, you're likely to like him.
2.Common things are cuter: familiar people are more likable.
*Effect, in simple terms, is that we instinctively prefer things that we see regularly. The more we spend time with someone, our minds gradually get used to and get acquainted with that person, and then we develop a sense of intimacy with them. This kind of intimacy will make it easier for us to like this person, after all, can you look at the same face every day without generating some feelings? Therefore, many young couples in the school often choose to take classes in the same class, the same club activities, etc., which is based on this reason.
3.Those who resemble themselves are kind: people who are similar to themselves are more attractive.
People tend to prefer people who are close to them. The principle of similarity is like this, if two people have a lot in common in values, hobbies, living habits, etc., the attraction between them will be particularly great. Because this similarity means that communication is comfortable and there is less conflict, it is naturally easier to cultivate deep feelings.
4.Complement each other to last: you both have to complement each other.
Similar to similarity, there is also the principle of complementarity. Complementarity mainly means that if two people's personalities, abilities, and specialties can complement each other and support each other, they will also have a great attraction to each other. Because of this complementarity, the two of you can form a relationship of relying on and supporting each other in the process of getting along, so as to achieve a sense of psychological balance.
5.If you look good, you won't feel beautiful after looking at it for a long time: charm often comes from the charm of the body.
The Law of Attraction says that people are instinctively attracted to people who are healthy, energetic, and attractive. This is because a face that can be seen may mean that the other person has good genes and excellent fertility, so people are more likely to have a good impression of such a person. In addition, the law of attraction is also reflected in our appreciation and pursuit of beauty, and beautiful things always make people yearn for them.
6.There is always a reward for your efforts: good feedback is the greatest encouragement.
According to reward theory, people are more likely to like people who provide them with fun and excitement. For example, when we interact with someone, the more positive feedback they give us, the more positive they give us, the easier it is for us to have a good impression of them. When we like someone, we will be more willing to pay for him, and the other party's praise is our greatest encouragement, thus forming a virtuous circle.
In short, there are many reasons to like someone, in addition to the aforementioned first impression, ** effect, similarity principle, complementarity principle, law of attraction and reward theory, there are many other factors. Figuring out these psychological principles will certainly help us better explore our inner emotions, and at the same time, we can apply these principles more intelligently in our daily lives, making our love life more wonderful!
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