As the saying goes: "If you have money or not, go home for the New Year." ”
Return home for the New Year and reunite with the family. During this period, it is indispensable to gossip with relatives and friends, feast and have fun.
Coming home for the Chinese New Year:There are three things not to say, three things not to drink, and three things not to go, the Year of the Dragon will be better!
There are three things not to say
1.Don't talk big
When relatives and friends gather, there are inevitably people who brag about showing themselves.
But this does not make you lose face, but makes others disgusted.
After all, a few families are happy and a few are sad, some people are prosperous, and some people are frustrated and frustrated.
People who are skilled in human feelings have always been with the light, humble and self-controlled, and low-key people.
There is not only the thoughtfulness of comparing the heart to the heart, but also the wisdom of constricting the edge, so as to achieve steady and far-reaching results.
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2.No complaints
Mencius said: "A gentleman does not complain about the sky, and he does not care about people." ”
Sometimes while chatting, you start complaining as soon as you say something to me.
But life will not be fulfilled by complaining, but will hinder the path of fortune because it is full of negative energy.
During the Spring Festival, with positive and auspicious words, you can enrich your mood for the coming year, and you are the real wise man.
3.No gossip
As the saying goes, "Gossip and gossip." ”
Playing with right and wrong and gossiping about people is a taboo when going home for the New Year.
After all, there is no impermeable wall in the world, and these words will inevitably reach the ears of the person concerned.
not only provokes right and wrong for his own family, but also ruins his reputation and hurts others and himself.
Take care of your own mouth and don't talk about other people's affairs, so that you can be at ease and have a good year.
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There are three types of wine that you don't drink
1.Don't get drunk
As the saying goes: "Drink pleasantly, get drunk and hurt your body." ”
Drink in moderation, alcohol is a concoction to liven up the atmosphere;
Wanton drunkenness, without knowing moderation, wine becomes a poison that pierces the intestines and hurts the body.
Besides, when you get drunk, if you have no mouth, you will be full of ugliness and make people laugh in vain.
Don't be greedy, don't overdo it, take care of your body, and stop in moderation, which is the best self-discipline for a person.
2.Do not drink alcohol
At the wine table, it is inevitable that there will be people who want to be lively and frequently persuade them to drink.
The other party persuaded one after another, but you couldn't pull your face, so you drank one by one.
If you wronged yourself in order to cater to others, it is not only harmful to your health, but also affects the mood of the New Year.
It is wisest to stay away from people who have no sense of proportion.
3.Don't drink alcohol
People often say: "Deep feelings, a mouthful." ”
During the dinner and wine party, there are always people who say some exaggerated words to persuade the wine.
You can drink a lot of fast and quick alcohol in a short period of time, which can cause great harm to the body.
It can range from dizziness and headache to liver damage, to alcoholism, which is life-threatening.
In the second half of life, health comes first, and wine must be tasted in small sips in order to have today every year, and there will be a future every year.
There are three pros who do not go
1.There are relatives who have no contact
There is a cloud in the Book of Rites: "If you go and don't come, it's rude; It is also rude to come and not to communicate".
The movement between relatives and friends is to deepen the friendship between each other.
If the other party only thinks about taking, taking advantage of small advantages, and being stingy with giving, such relatives will only suffer losses and suffer if they get too close.
2.Worship relatives who step high and step low
As the saying goes: "No one asks if you are poor in the downtown area, but you have distant relatives in the mountains." ”
But relatives who are connected by blood should be the icing on the cake when the scenery is beautiful, and the charcoal in the snow when they are down.
And the relatives who worship the high and the low will only cling to the knots when you are proud, and stomp and taunt when you are frustrated.
If you get too close, you will either be held high and used in every way, or you will be sneered at and looked down upon.
The best way is: don't take you seriously, don't compete with you, keep your distance, and the days can be clean and comfortable.
3.Delicious lazy to do relatives
There is an old Chinese saying: "Don't be afraid of slowness, only be afraid of standing." ”
As long as you have a pair of industrious hands, you will inevitably be poor for a long time and suffer for a long time.
What I am most afraid of is that I have no ambition, I don't know how to be motivated, I don't do my job, I am too lazy to eat, and I have to get by.
Such relatives like to get something for nothing, not only are people poor, but they are also poor.
If you don't help the poor, it won't affect your family's family style.
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Author: Confucian Everyone; **WeChat*** Rufeng everyone (ID: rufengdajia).