In the current field of historical research and interpretation, Feng Tang's remarks have attracted widespread attention. He called the book not only a book about history, but also a book that reveals human nature, and even called it a guide to avoiding pitfalls in interpersonal relationships. So, as a thousand-year-old masterpiece, what kind of interpersonal wisdom is hidden in "Zizhi Tongjian"? And how can we learn from historical experience to avoid pitfalls in interpersonal relationships?
First of all, let's take a look at the view of "listening to both and being clear, and partiality is dark" in the "Zizhi Tongjian". This sentence tells us that when dealing with interpersonal relationships, we should listen to a wide range of different opinions and perspectives to avoid misunderstandings and conflicts due to biased listening and bias. In real life, we often encounter situations where we only hear the voice of one party and misunderstand the other, which leads to tension in the relationship, and if we can listen to both as the ancients did, we can avoid this happening.
Secondly, the wisdom of "employing people like tools, each taking their strengths" in the "General Guide to Governance" is also worth learning. This means that in interpersonal interactions, we should assign tasks according to each person's strengths and abilities, rather than demanding that everyone do the same thing well. Everyone has their own characteristics and strengths, and only by finding the right position can you bring out the most results.
Furthermore, the General Guide to Governance emphasizes the importance of virtue in interpersonal relationships. The phrase "virtue is greater than talent is a gentleman, and talent is greater than virtue is a villain" reminds us that when choosing a friend or partner, we should pay more attention to the character of the other party rather than just ability. In real life, we often meet people who are talented but have poor moral character, and such people often cause a lot of trouble to the people around them. Therefore, when we choose a friend or partner, we must pay attention to the character of the other person.
Feng Tang proposed a "CEO comparison method" to learn the "General Knowledge of Governance". He advises readers to put themselves in the shoes of historical figures and make decisions, which can help readers better grasp the rules and apply historical stories to real life. Whether you are a manager, a professional or a history buff, you can learn from the "General Guide to Governance", "Wisdom", "Humanity and Wisdom".
In general, Feng Tang believes that "Zizhi Tongjian" is a book that reveals human nature, power and wisdom, and is a guide to avoiding pitfalls. By studying the General Guide to Governance, we can learn from historical experience and avoid falling into the trap of interpersonal relationships.
Through the above analysis, we can see that the interpersonal wisdom in the "Zizhi Tongjian" is not far away, and they are all the experiences and lessons summarized by the ancients in practice. This wisdom can not only help us avoid getting stuck in our relationships, but it can also help us better understand and handle relationships and improve our interpersonal skills. Therefore, the "General Guide to Governance" is not only a history book, but also a wisdom manual for interpersonal communication.