For many women, there is such an experience, that is, during confinement, if they are slightly wronged, they will even remember it for a long time.
I'm like this, my husband and I met through a blind date, and then got married and had children, although I didn't have much affection between my husband at first, but after getting along slowly, the feelings between me and my husband are also accumulating, my husband tolerates me everywhere and humbles me, and he will also use his spare time to earn more living expenses, for my husband, I am 10,000 satisfied.
Although my relationship with my husband is good, I don't get along well with my mother-in-law.
One of the things that I care about the most is that when I was confined, I had a big fight with my mother-in-law because of a bowl of chicken soup, and finally this incident made me remember it for 20 years, and after 20 years, my mother-in-law's body is getting older and older.
Many people may not be able to understand my behavior, but only after experiencing it yourself will they understand my difficulties and troubles.
My husband and I met on a blind date, but that didn't affect my relationship with him, and as I said at the beginning, he was very kind to me and would take my thoughts into account no matter what.
It is precisely because of this that whenever there is a conflict between me and my mother-in-law, I will take into account my husband's feelings, so I constantly choose to be patient.
But for a girl in confinement, her temper at that time was already very bad, and if someone quarreled with her, she would definitely remember it clearly.
The cause of the matter is this, during the confinement, I wanted to drink a bowl of chicken soup, but I needed to take care of the children at that time, and my husband was not around, so I had to tell my mother-in-law this request, I thought that my mother-in-law would help me make a bowl of chicken soup, but I waited left and right, and still couldn't wait.
After about a week, I was asking why my mother-in-law didn't make me chicken soup.
My mother-in-law's answer made me feel very angry, and my mother-in-law told me that I can't drink chicken soup during confinement, just eat a little bit.
In fact, I know very well in my heart that my mother-in-law has been busy with my sister-in-law's family during this time, and she will only go home to cook for me when it is time to eat, and in the past month, I have basically been taking care of the children by myself.
I couldn't hold back for a while, so I had a big fight with my mother-in-law, and I said to my mother-in-law: Since you feel so sorry for your daughter, when you are old, let her support her in old age.
In this way, my mother-in-law and I did not speak for many years.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, the mother-in-law is already old, and the sister-in-law is busy taking care of her mother-in-law at home, and she has no time to ask about her mother, so the mother-in-law has fallen to the point of being old and helpless.
At this time, although my husband expressed his desire to let me support my old age, I didn't agree, after all, as a mother-in-law, my mother-in-law has done a lot of things wrong over the years, plus she quarreled with me during the confinement, how can I let go?
My husband also understood what I meant, and since then, he has never asked for my opinion, and as for my mother-in-law, my husband spent 3,000 yuan a month to hire a nanny for my mother-in-law, and I can only choose to accept this situation.