Have you ever noticed that in this complicated world, beautiful moments are always like a fleeting cloud, and it is difficult to last?
Fireworks burst into the night sky, dazzling but fleeting, shooting stars piercing the darkness, beautiful but only fleeting.
The same is true of the emotions between people, if we think too highly of ourselves and do not know how to maintain and operate, then we will eventually go to strangers and alienate each other.
In fact, many relationships break down because of those three words: I think.
I was convinced that my parents would always be by my side and accompany me through every spring, summer, autumn and winter. Their tolerance and patience seemed to be an excuse for me to indulge myself. However, I didn't realize that every willfulness and demand silently hurt their hearts.
Shi Tiesheng once said: "I really hope that all children can understand that they should not be enemies of their mothers, because I already understand, but it is too late." "When I look back, I am deeply moved.
I used to think that my friends would always be by my side, sharing my joys and sorrows. However, I have come to understand that the help of others is a rare form of friendship, not a natural obligation.
As Mr. Lu Xun said, "Friendship is a bridge between two sincere hearts, not an endless demand from one party to the other." "When we ignore the presence of others for a long time, our emotions will naturally become weaker; When we frequently ignore the feelings of others, our minds will gradually cool.
I used to think that once I met my destined lover, I would never be separated.
However, I selectively ignored her desires and turned a blind eye to her grievances.
Zhang Xiaoxian once wrote: "The biggest harm a man does to a woman is not that he empathizes with her, but that he gives her a deep disappointment when she is full of expectations." ”
When the tears run out, the heart is broken; When the disappointment builds up to a certain point, it's only a matter of time before you leave.
I thought you'd understand, I thought you'd know, I thought you'd be tolerant ......”
However, these are all just my personal imaginations.
Little did I know that what I thought was a quiet trail would have become bustling and busy; What I thought was clear skies has long been replaced by storms.
In this world, nothing is taken for granted, and no one is obliged to always be gentle with you and accommodate your vexatiousness.
If we don't cherish it and don't make efforts, no matter how deep the fate is, there will eventually be a day when it will dissipate.
Therefore, don't let the words "I think" become the culprit of destroying a relationship and an affectionate relationship.