I've written a lot of emotional articles, and there's one problem that I get a lot going on.
What exactly is love?
In fact, everyone has a different experience and therefore a different understanding of love.
The simplest example is the difference between liking and loving, some people think it is the same, while others say it is a different level.
It's really hard to fully explain this kind of thing, and sometimes it feels like it can't be calculated mathematically at all.
Therefore, when the opposite sex gets along, the frequency is often different.
You receive a private message. A boy was very worried.
He likes a girl and the two get along well, but he doesn't know if the girl likes him or just treats him as a good friend.
I believe many friends have experienced a similar situation.
Even if you think you're conflicted, the other person may still see you as a friend.
To make matters worse, I impulsively confessed my feelings, but he dumped me, and we couldn't even be friends.
So you need to understand a woman's heart before confessing, but the question is not complicated.
In fact, if a girl simply treats you as a good friend, she will usually behave in four ways: this is very accurate.
1.I'm not jealous of you.
If a girl thinks you are a good friend, she will act calm and congratulate you when you interact with other strangers.
To her, the two of you are just friends. We have a good relationship, but we're just friends.
She won't be jealous, and she won't alienate other boys because of you.
In her opinion, there can be all kinds of interactions between friends, and there are no taboos.
2.We will not respond unconditionally.
If a girl treats you as a good friend, she will tolerate you appropriately. After all, friends must be considerate of each other.
However, even if the two of you have a good relationship, her patience is limited and will not accept you unconditionally.
She has a good temper, but also has her own conclusions.
Even if you act more than she can handle, she'll turn things around!
3.There is no vague **.
If a girl only treats you as a good friend when she is with the opposite sex, she will definitely not behave vaguely and hesitantly.
She won't take the initiative to have intimate physical contact with you, and she will be even more resistant if you try.
She knows very well what a sense of boundaries is, so she won't joke so as not to cause misunderstandings.
Even if the two of you are on good terms, she will keep a certain distance because she only sees you as a friend, not a partner.
4.I don't date alone.
Even if it's just friends, it's not uncommon for the opposite sex to be alone sometimes.
However, the formal differences are still significant.
If a girl only sees you as a good friend, she can go out to dinner with you or do something alone.
However, if you ask her to do something else alone, she will most likely refuse.
For example, watching movies, etc., although not so vague, it is easy to misunderstand.
The truth is, if a girl just treats you as a good friend, she will definitely feel it.
The above four symptoms are just a guide, not inevitable. After all, every woman is unique.
And, over time, they often fall in love.
One moment they may be friends, the next they may be in love.
In other words, what you feel inside of you matters.
The last thing I want to say is.
Time can change a lot of things.
For example, a long wait can turn into a romantic ......