It is often said that there is a great deal of fate when people meet each other.
It only works at a specific time, in a specific place, in a specific format.
Even if you are classmates, you can't be in the same class if you want to.
For love, encounters are more precious.
Whether it's in person or just saying hello online, it's fantastic.
In addition, the encounter may be through a referral from a relative or friend.
As the saying goes, marriage is a thousand miles, and a thread is connected.
I've written a lot of emotional articles, mostly about love between men and women.
It looks boring, but it's actually fun.
Because love manifests itself differently in different situations.
For example, "blind date" as a form of dating is not only romantic, but also realistic.
Once we meet, we often never see each other again.
I see similar questions all the time.
What does it mean that the guy on a blind date doesn't take the initiative to contact you?
Actually, this question is not difficult. Because the guys who go on blind dates are usually very practical. If he doesn't reach out to you, there are three possible reasons.
1.I do not like you.
Love is just fate. Blind dates are no exception.
Sometimes a girl thinks she is in good shape, but the other person doesn't. In fact, similar situations are not uncommon.
In addition, some boys value efficiency. If you're not interested in a girl after a group date, you probably won't actively try to reach out to her.
Time is still precious to them, and they don't need to do anything like that.
In this case, they don't reach out to you, which is actually a subtle rejection.
Of course, this does not mean that there is anything wrong with this girl, it just doesn't fit.
2.I'm not going to speak.
If the guy on the blind date doesn't take the initiative to contact you, it may be because he has no plans to get married.
Similar situations actually happen all the time in life.
Some people, both men and women, go on blind dates purely to cope with their parents.
They enjoy living alone, but at the urging of their parents, they agree to go on a blind date.
However, such a blind date is just a formality for them.
Unless fate really befalls them, they will not fall in love, let alone take the initiative to contact a girl.
3.There is no theme.
Guys may not know how to reach out to you.
You know, some men go on blind dates because they are inexperienced and more introverted.
Such boys generally appear clumsy when dealing with relationship problems.
Even if you like a woman, you may be confused about how to bring up the topic or whether you should ask her out to meet.
Sometimes you even have to struggle for a long time to say "good night" to your girl.
Despite all their entanglements, they were unable to decide to act.
From the girl's point of view, this situation means that the boy is not responsible.
In fact, many things in the emotional world are so complex that they are difficult to explain simply.
In addition, everyone is unique and has different reasons for not taking the initiative.
That is, for women, if they become interested in their partner after a blind date, it is better to take the initiative and take action so as not to miss the opportunity.
Of course, women's initiative must be moderate. After all, blind date is also a game.
The last thing I want to say is.
The flowers should be broken when they bloom, but don't wait until the flowers ......are gone