I found an interesting question worth discussing.
After a man and a woman break up, which is more cruel to shield a person or delete a person?
I always feel that after a couple breaks up, whether they block or delete, the result is almost the same: they just don't want to contact each other anymore.
However, from another perspective, people who are blocked or deleted still feel very different.
So which is more ruthless, blocking or deleting?
1. Blocking seems to be more ruthless than deleting.
Blocking the net is a relatively calm and decisive action.
When one party chooses to block the other, it essentially wants to cut off all contact with the other party.
This practice is done to prevent the other person from bothering you and making it easier for you to come out of the shadow of the breakup.
This is definitely a big blow for the blacklisted parties. This is because there may be no opportunity to engage with the other person, and there may be no opportunity for explanation or redemption.
From this point of view, it can be said that it is a more vicious behavior.
In contrast, deletion seems to leave more space.
Even if one party chooses to remove the other, they may still want to reconnect with the other party in the future.
Deleting a friend doesn't mean breaking up. Sometimes it's just to calm down and give both parties time and space to think and process their emotions.
This practice is relatively benign because it does not completely sever the ties between the two parties.
2.Deleting can be more brutal than blocking.
The lockdown may seem brutal from one point of view, but it is actually a much more decisive approach.
Blocking someone means you don't want to give them a chance anymore and don't want to be influenced by them anymore.
By blocking your partner, giving them hope, and not procrastinating, you can both get out of the breakup situation very quickly.
While it's brutal, it can make it possible for both of you to start a new life faster.
Eviction can leave both parties in a constant state of entanglement and torment.
This is because you are still in each other's address books, and you may feel the urge to contact them again at any time.
Even if you delete a friend, you will eventually stay in touch for a variety of reasons, and every time you add a friend, the pain will spread again.
So, someone doesn't necessarily mean ruthless.
3.Someone can be blocked or deleted. It is important to consider the possibility of more returns.
Everyone deals with emotions differently. Some people are better suited to being blocked, while others are better suited to being deleted.
For those who have a hard time letting go of an old relationship, deletion may be more appropriate because it gives them a chance to start over after a calm thought.
For some people who want to get out of trouble quickly, blocking may be more appropriate because it allows them to cut off contact with the other person more quickly.
I mean, it's actually okay to block or delete someone, but there's nothing more brutal than that.
But either way, parting is hard. If you can, try to say goodbye gently and appropriately.
In fact, mood swings are inevitable when a relationship ends.
I can say that because we are all adults.
Think twice before making a decision so you don't regret it once you've made it.
As for the rest, we'll just have to wait and see.
The last thing I want to say is.
Because I once loved you deeply, even if we were to separate, I wanted to bless you as best I could ......