I have written a lot of emotional articles, discussed various emotional issues with everyone, and found very interesting and real phenomena.
No matter how rational a person is, as soon as he encounters "love", he will lose his mind.
Maybe you're too concerned and it's hard to control yourself!
In fact, many of the great truths are well known, but they cannot be put into practice.
Similarly, in the world of love, some things are irretrievable, but some things are still wishful thinking.
Falling in love itself is not easy.
When it comes to adult love, these three truths are even more cruel!
1.Sooner or later, the novelty wears off.
No matter how much two people love each other when they first get together, it's the right thing to do. Even if we quarrel, we can be sweet.
This is because in the love phase, the freshness is overwhelming.
Even couples who have been in love for a long time may be looking forward to the relationship because of the change of role.
This curiosity drives them to explore and tolerate each other.
In other words, couples at this stage are truly sweet in every sense of the word.
Unfortunately, as time goes on, the two get used to each other, and the novelty wears off.
Even if two people deliberately maintain it, it is difficult to do it completely.
As you know, some things are irreversible.
If you fell in love when you were younger, you might wonder why the passion has faded.
After going through more, I was relieved.
2.Love is not a fairy tale.
When I was a child, I was ignorant and had all kinds of longings for love.
There are a lot of girls around me who want to meet their Prince Charming.
Similarly, men will have their dream lovers.
I pursue all sorts of things because I have expectations.
Unfortunately, when we are really in love, we find that love is not as beautiful as we imagined.
In other words, the beauty of love can be found in fairy tales.
But real life is full of all kinds of worries and trivialities.
This trivial question is not a normal one.
These little things are hidden in every aspect of life and can appear anytime, anywhere.
One and a half times may not be a problem, but over time, the love will break down.
3.The person you love may not be a good fit for you.
In the world of love, there are no rules for many things.
Sometimes, you don't need a reason to love someone at all.
However, liking someone doesn't mean you're compatible, and you may feel uncomfortable if you've been with someone you like for a long time.
This discomfort is not the other party's problem, nor is it my own problem, it's just that our personalities are not compatible.
Falling in love with someone can start with a very fragmented **.
But there are many facets to life, and just because you're attracted to certain things doesn't mean that all of them are right for you.
This means that the person you like is not necessarily the best person.
Unfortunately, most of us have to face a lot of difficulties in life before we can accept this reality.
Luckily, I'm still young and have enough capital to try.
In fact, life is always challenging, and so is love.
These unknown challenges can put people in trouble at any time.
There are also some detours that cannot be avoided.
But love is beautiful because it can't.
All I can say is that everything has its advantages and disadvantages.
The last thing I want to say is.
Some truths are a little brutal, but not deadly.
Some things can only grow with experience.
Sometimes the process is more important than the outcome.