Mr. Lu Xun said: "People, once they understand it thoroughly, they will become silent, not because they have no ability to get along with others, but because they have no interest in acting on the spot." ”
A pole of wind and moon, a cloud of smoke and rain, time is like a stream, a few years.
Nowadays, I have not fully understood Mr. Lu Xun's words, and I have reached middle age, and I feel that many things that should have been done have not been done, which is an indisputable truth and fact. Of course, only those who have suffered from middle age can read and appreciate this passage.
All kinds of things we have experienced are facts, and there are pictures and truths. The truth about the fatigue of middle-aged people is not a piece of plasticine that can be kneaded at will; The fact of suffering is not a blank sheet of paper that can be freely cut. In life, the most difficult thing is middle-aged, this age that is not up or down, not young and not old, has neither rich experience nor corresponding experience, but has to face a lot of things that require "hands and brains to move at the same time".
In middle age, your hands and feet are not so strong; Your mind isn't that flexible. Middle-aged, there are stars in the head, footprints in the head, and we just walk.
When people reach middle age, it is a little difficult. We have to face the trivialities of life, the test of temperament, the burden of debt, the responsibility of work, the weakness of the body, and so on, and in front of them, we either remain silent or fight for reason, no matter what we do and what the result is, we feel that it is not right.
Career and money, family problems, health problems, parental pension, social and interpersonal relationships, career crises, emotional betrayal, these invisible pressures lingering in our hearts are not only the sorrow of middle-aged people but also a kind of sober yearning after being drunk.
Life must be happy, don't make the gold bottle empty to the moon. Life is not satisfactory in the world, and the Ming Dynasty spreads flat boats. Life has been infinite from generation to generation, and Jiang Yue looks similar every year.
This middle age, I haven't seen through it yet. To put it simply, there is still a lack of skills and confidence. At this age, I am not moaning without illness, nor am I making something out of nothing, but I do have a lot of immature things to say, and when I say it, I will feel more comfortable in my heart.