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Ms. Wen Hong, 52, has been living with her second husband Yu Song in a rental house for 10 years. But when her husband and daughter got married, he suddenly took out a dowry of 1.1 million and promised his daughter that he would not leave.
This made Wen Hong deeply disappointed, and she did not win her husband's heart for 10 years. She decided to leave the home in the hope of completely escaping the shadow of domestic violence and mental torture.
Wen Hong had experienced an unhappy marriage and suffered from domestic violence and mental torture. Whenever she recalls that period of her old life, she is always in a low mood.
She was convinced that she needed to get out of that oppressive lifestyle as soon as possible in order to start her life again. Therefore, in order to get out of that unhappy marriage, she gave up all her possessions just for a divorce.
Liberated from that cage-like life, she felt a sense of joy to see the light of day again.
Although I gave up all my family's possessions, I felt very lucky because I had a job to support myself and earn about 3,000 yuan a month.
After the divorce, I didn't have any worries and just wanted to live a peaceful life. I regard work as the whole of life, others are not willing to work overtime, I am willing to work overtime; Others went out to dinner, and I stayed in the factory to work.
My busy schedule made me forget for a moment the psychological shadow of domestic violence in the past. In our factory, there was a female colleague who was deeply sympathetic to me, and she introduced me to her friend Yu Song.
Although I refused many times, she still insisted, always saying that I was too young to live alone, and that I should find someone to share the difficulties of life with. A few years after the divorce, I felt lonely and longed to find someone who could understand me and care about me.
So, I accepted my colleague's advice and met Yu Song, a divorced man who seemed gentle. He was mature and steady, which made me feel at ease. After his arrival, I felt relaxed because my marriage to my ex-husband made me experience the pain of domestic violence.
Yu Song, who is four years older than me, is a small businessman who rents a small shop that specializes in selling small electrical appliances. He made an attic in the store, and the attic was where he slept, and although the place was not big, it was very comfortable for me.
Yu Song also had a good impression of me, he sympathized with my past marriage, and promised to give me a warm home.
Before we got married, Yu Song told me about the fact that he left the house and savings to his ex-wife, because he and his ex-wife also have a daughter, so he doesn't have much money now.
I didn't pay much attention to his situation at the time, and I was convinced that as long as we worked together, our lives would only get better. After all, we are only in our forties, and we are still young.
In order to take care of Yu Song, I let him move into my rental house, and my living room was much brighter than his. However, with the addition of him, my living expenses have also increased a lot.
I used to be very economical in eating three meals by myself, but now that I am married to Yu Song, my expenses have become even larger. I wanted Yu Song to share some of the expenses, but he told me that his business had not been doing well lately and that he was barely making any money.
He advised us to save a little and life would get better. In desperation, I began to live frugally, buying only the cheapest food to eat. Only when Yu Song's daughter comes, we can enjoy some delicious food, and then Yu Song will go out to buy vegetables himself.
I've been living frugally, hoping to save enough money to buy a small house sooner, and I don't want to live in a rental house for the rest of my life. I told Yu Song about my idea, and he agreed.
Yu Song's daughter is called Xiaowen, although she was born to his ex-wife, but I didn't have any prejudice against her because of this, but treated her as my own daughter.
I buy her small gifts, cook her favorite meals, watch TV with her, and listen to her talk about her daily life. Xiaowen is also very dependent on me, she often finds excuses to visit her father, in fact, she wants to talk to me and share her secrets and troubles, this dependence and trust makes me feel very gratified.
Although I am her stepmother, I have never treated her as an outsider, because I know that if my parents divorce, what is the sin of my children? At the time of my divorce, the son chose to follow his father, and I did not fight for custody of him.
Now I'm Xiaowen's stepmother, but I don't think stepmothers are necessarily bad. I don't care if she'll appreciate me or not, I just want to have a clear conscience.
I immersed myself in the warm atmosphere of family and felt extremely happy. I think that in many years, Yu Song and I should have our own house, and we can't rent like this anymore.
After all, we've been living here for 10 years, and it's time to change the housing conditions. Although it was only a small one-bedroom apartment, it was our shared home. One weekend, I stumbled upon a message on Yu Song's phone that left me stunned.
It turned out that Yu Song had been giving his daughter money, and the largest sum was 1.1 million, which was for his daughter's wedding. He also said to his daughter: "Anyway, your Aunt Wen won't leave me." ”
Seeing this message, I felt cheated and at the same time angry and disappointed by his actions. I always thought that he was really short of money, but I didn't expect him to just guard against me.
The sentence "Your Aunt Wen won't leave me anyway" made me feel a tingle in my heart. I used to trust him and was willing to endure hardships with him, but he used it as a "reassuring pill".
I sat alone in front of the window, recalling the hard work of the past 10 years, but I ended up living in a ** without knowing it. I didn't want to kid myself, and I asked him why he was lying to me.
Yu Song was reluctant to answer at first, but seeing that I was determined to investigate, he finally broke his silence and confessed to me the reason why he was hiding his property. It turned out that in his last marriage, his ex-wife had been using the children to claim property.
After marrying me, he was worried that his money would be squandered by me, so he chose to lie and hide his property. Now that his daughter is getting married, he thinks, after all, his daughter is his own, and he should make a move as a father, and he clearly knows that I don't know that he has property, so he is relieved to boldly marry his daughter 1.1 million.
He also emphasized: "These are old accounts, and they will not be like this again in the future, and we will work together in the future." "Seeing him take it lightly, I couldn't stand his lies and deception any longer.
I stood up, choked up and said, "I can't stand you anymore!" You've been hiding it from me and giving them my money to spend. We've lived in a rental home for 10 years, and you're not thinking about our future at all.
You are such a selfish person, do you think I will still believe you? Will I still keep this home? People like you are only fit to live alone. ”
Yu Song, whose face became ugly, sneered: "You want to leave me? A woman in her 50s, who else can want you? This sentence was like a sharp knife that stabbed me, made me angry at his deception and contempt, and my self-esteem was greatly hurt.
A few days later, I packed my bags, left a divorce deed, took my savings for many years, and left the house in silence, and the rent was settled for the month. Yu Song didn't fight to keep me, maybe he thought I was angry for a while, and even thought that life would be difficult after I left.
However, I had faith in myself and felt chills for this halfway couple. 10 years of time have not been able to make him really good to me, I am a failed woman. In his desperation, I signed a divorce agreement, and he didn't ask me about the deposit, maybe he also had a deposit, or he felt that he was at a loss.
Now that I'm 52 years old, my retirement life is full of challenges and difficulties, but I believe I can get through it, I don't live for anyone anymore, and I want to live the rest of the day.