The aunt divorced and left the house, and the conditions made her ex-husband helpless
After the divorce, the aunt left the house and put forward a condition that made him cry and laugh at her ex-husband. "If I remarry, you have to buy me a house," she said. The ex-husband smiled bitterly, but also understood the aunt's thoughts.
He sighed: "Life is not easy, and it is even more difficult to find a good match. When people reach middle age, wandering outside the besieged city, if they meet someone who can really collide with sparks, they naturally have to walk in without hesitation; But if you end up being a bunk brother, then it is not impossible to get out of the siege and look for the sea and sky.
But remember, you must be absolutely cautious when eating back, why make the same mistake twice? ”
Sister Zhang, a 47-year-old woman, has just ended her marriage, but recently she had a dispute with her ex-husband. Sister Zhang and her ex-husband are in free love, and they came to a strange city in their twenties to struggle together, and the experience was very difficult.
My ex-husband Brother Chen started his own business to do foreign trade, and a few years ago he seized the opportunity, received a lot of large orders, and accumulated old customers, even when the epidemic was at its worst, it did not affect them to change houses and cars.
However,"Can share the joys and sorrows"But this sentence is truly embodied in them. After the economic situation improved, the two began to diverge in their philosophies about life.
Sister Zhang doesn't want to just teach her husband and children at home, but she hasn't gone out to work for many years and doesn't know what she should do. As the child grew up and went to boarding school, Sister Zhang felt more and more bored, and Brother Chen was busy with work and entertainment every day, so Sister Zhang began to learn to play cards to kill time.
It's just that Sister Zhang never expected that her card addiction would disrupt her life. She was addicted to the poker table, sometimes staying up all night. At first, Brother Chen didn't notice anything unusual, because he himself was often drunk, and when he came home, he fell asleep, and when he woke up the next day, Sister Zhang was already busy in the kitchen.
However, the frequent disappearance of huge bank deposits made Brother Chen realize that something was wrong. So, one day, he suddenly went home and learned about Sister Zhang's card addiction.
Brother Chen was very angry, he felt that his hard work was all for this family, and Sister Zhang did not do a good job in family affairs and lost a lot of money. Brother Chen kept blaming Sister Zhang, who was originally guilty, and wanted to correct it, but she didn't expect Brother Chen to tell her son who had just entered junior high school.
Sister Zhang felt ashamed and angry, and had a big fight with Brother Chen. Subsequently, they were plunged into a cold war.
After a period of ignoring each other, Sister Zhang felt more free, no longer bound by anything, and enjoyed her life. And Brother Chen often needs to travel on business and rarely goes home, so their marriage gradually faded away in cold violence.
When their son decided to study abroad after the high school entrance examination, Brother Chen decided that it was time to end this unhappy marriage. During this time, Brother Chen was in charge of the family's financial power, leaving only living expenses for Sister Zhang every month.
However, Sister Zhang has lost confidence in the family, her behavior has become more and more out of control, and her son has indulged himself even more after going abroad. Brother Chen couldn't stand it anymore and filed for divorce.
At first, Sister Zhang was firmly opposed, but after some crying, she calmed down, and after a few days of thinking, she made a request.
Brother Chen couldn't cry or laugh after hearing this, and he was very helpless. Sister Zhang made a request that he didn't expect, that is, even if they divorced, they would continue to maintain a cohabitation relationship.
She thinks that no husband will be laughed at after the divorce, so she insists on maintaining the relationship. Although Brother Chen said that after the divorce, they should go their own way, but Sister Zhang insisted on leaving the house and staying here.
The two negotiated for a period of time to no avail, but in the end, Brother Chen suddenly agreed to Sister Zhang's request, saying that they could continue to maintain a cohabitation relationship after the divorce, but the premise was to go through the divorce procedures first.
Sister Zhang and Brother Chen went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to divorce on a sunny day. However, when Sister Zhang got the divorce certificate, she found that the door lock code in the house had been changed and she could not enter.
After inquiry, she found that it was replaced by Brother Chen. Brother Chen told her that he had helped her rent a house and asked her to move there. Sister Zhang was very angry and cursed Brother Chen loudly, accusing him of breaking his word and deceiving her.
However, Brother Chen was unwavering and resolutely believed that they were not suitable, and no longer ignored Sister Zhang's crying and the persuasion of relatives and friends, and even cut off his son's **.
It is not the fault of one person that marriage has come to a dead end. Like the marriage of Brother Chen and Sister Zhang, it should have been a beautiful journey, but they ignored each other's feelings and no longer had the enthusiasm to manage the marriage, which eventually led to the gradual collapse of the emotional foundation under external pressure, and even turned against each other.
And Sister Zhang's attempt to turn back is obviously an unwise choice. If the marriage is wrong, if it can't be repaired in time, and you want to use extreme ways to redeem it, then such a siege will only make them hurt each other again.
Marriage is not complicated, you just need to treat it with your heart.