"Rich daughters, poor men" is the best education for children in most people's cognition, because poor girls are easy to appear when they grow up, can't stand the material **, greedy human weakness, just like a child who has not eaten sugar, when others give her a candy, she will feel very sweet, lose herself for the sake of material, desperate, and want to sacrifice everything she has in exchange for a feeling of freedom.
They are all children, so why should girls be rich and boys poor? In fact, both boys and girls should be rich, and "wealth" is not material poverty and wealth, but spiritual self-sufficiency, spiritual food, which is the foundation that supports a person's beliefs. Because only from the bottom of my heart, cultivate a good child's three views, is to really guide the child to the right path of life, boys have to take on the responsibility of the family, relatively speaking, boys are more difficult to raise, his three views are even more important than girls, although the new era advocates equality between men and women, but raising boys is really more bothering than raising girls! Boys are the weakness of their parents, and they are also armor, and if they are raised well, they are measured by a gentleman, and if they are not raised well, they have no tutor.
1.Do your own thing
Parents always feel that their children are still young, and they can't do many things at all, so they would rather be tired a little bit, but also help them do what should belong to them, such as the child is 3 years old, and the parents still follow the bowl behind their buttocks all day to feed, parents first let themselves accept the fact that their children have the ability to complete their own things, and then boldly let gowill"Rights"Return to the child's handsIn addition to dressing and eating, there are also toys to organize, schoolbag storage, etc., and parents should try to make them responsible.
2.Teach children to respect others
If you want your child to know how to respect others, parents should first set an example for their children, and secondly, parents should not spoil their children too much, which will make children become self-centered, do not know how to repay their parents, and will not respect others, respect is the basis of interpersonal interactions in society, work, friendship, etc. are based on respect, only with respect, there is civilization, if a person does not respect others, then he himself is not worthy of respect, dad bought gifts for children, It is also a kind of respect to teach children to say a word that has worked hard, and to learn to listen when others are talking.
3.Trust your child's choice
We should believe in the child's choice, for some things, once the child has made a specific decision, we should believe him, especially in the face of some difficulties, parents should support the child more, give the child full confidence, while cultivating the child's sense of responsibility, communication with the child is also very important, you can listen to the child's opinions, can not blindly instruct the child to do this and that, throughEncouragedIf the child encounters problems when completing something, parents can analyze the matter for the child and let the child take the initiative to complete the task.
When we educate our children, we are often prone to make a mistake, that is, we always tell our children all kinds of big truths, maybeThe child is too young to understandWhen the child is older, he may be able to hearIt's too much, it's already numb, it's tired,When the children are still young, we want to educate the children better, we might as wellThrough storytellingTo make the child understand the reason, we canChoose the right picture book and read it with your childNot only canExpand your child's knowledgeand be able to help childrenDevelop good reading habits and behavioral habits.
I recommendChildren's emotional management and character development picture book "Mom, I Can Do It"., this set of picture books has a total of 10 volumes,Suitable for children up to 6 years oldChildren's emotional management and character development picture book "Mom, I Can Do It" is a series of books that include childrenThere are a variety of problems that you may encounter in school life, also included:Children have a variety of emotional personality problems, for example:Tantrums, timidity and lack of self-confidence, bad habits, lack of assertiveness and other things.
Children's Emotional Management and Character Development" set of booksThere are not only pinyin phonetics, but also corresponding audio, which can not only be used as an enlightenment book for children's pinyin literacy practice, but also allow children to listen to audio and correct pronunciationParents can not only help children develop good reading habits, but also enhance parent-child feelings, expand children's knowledge, and standardize children's behavior.
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