Send a girl10,000 dowry, daughter-in-law is dissatisfied with more, I am embarrassed.
When my daughter got married, I gave a dowry of 100,000 yuan, and my daughter-in-law put forward new requirements, which made me a dilemma.
Although the profit is meager, he also earns a family business by relying on sales. With the increase in competitors, we gradually adjust our business direction to create a better future for our children.
We have two children, and our son is active and carries the hope of our whole family. With us, not having a son is seen as a joke, and as a result, we care relatively little about our daughter.
The daughter has a docile personality, is well-behaved and sensible, and is very likable. Although she excelled in her studies and won many awards, after failing the college entrance examination, she decided to repeat the exam for another year. My husband disagrees, and I have reservations about it.
I think that no matter how much women study, they will eventually get married, have children, and return to their families. Instead of spending a lot of time studying, it is better to get a job early.
After her daughter grew up, she chose to go out to work. She worked as a handboy at a relative's barber shop, and a year later followed an acquaintance to a foreign country. As an adult, my daughter has become more sensible, taking the initiative to send money home every month, and often buying me clothes.
When I was sick and hospitalized, my daughter took a leave of absence to take care of me, which touched me very much. Compared with my son's poor reading and only knowing how to play all day long, I think my daughter is my intimate little padded jacket.
During my hospitalization, my son didn't even look at me, which was very chilling for me.
Although my son's studies were not satisfactory and his results in the college entrance examination were not satisfactory, we still decided to sponsor him to go to university for the sake of his future. After graduating, he repeatedly hit a wall on the road to job hunting, always complaining that the work treatment was not good, the working hours were too long, he was unwilling to work hard, and he asked us for no money, which made me very helpless.
In the end, we helped him find an easy job with a monthly salary of more than 4,000 through relationships. Since I started working, my son seems to have changed as a person, he has started to have goals, and he also gave me a gift on my birthday, which is the first time he bought a gift for me, and I am very happy.
I am very pleased to see my son's growth.
When my son and daughter-in-law got married, I took out half of my life savings to buy a house in the city for them, and gave my daughter-in-law's family a bride price of 100,000 yuan. For my son, I did my best.
Although they live in the city, they still return home during the festive season. My daughter is also married, and her son-in-law is a college student from a rural area who leads a large company, and I am very optimistic about him.
When my daughter got married, I only received 80,000 bride price, because I knew that my daughter's son-in-law was not wealthy, and I didn't want to embarrass him. In addition, I also prepared a dowry of 100,000 yuan for my daughter, which is also a manifestation of my love for my daughter.
However, my daughter-in-law was dissatisfied with this, and she accused me of favoring my daughter and should leave the money to my grandson. This made me very angry, and I thought that it should be up to me to decide how my money was spent, not by my daughter-in-law.
Our dispute intensified, and finally my daughter-in-law asked me to go to my daughter and ask for the dowry of 100,000 yuan, otherwise she would turn us away and not allow us to see our grandson.
Now, my son is on her side and supports her decision, which makes me feel very confused and embarrassed. What should I do?