"Are you proud to be a counselor"? The college student asked for leave and did not approve the counselor, which made people laugh
The difference between college and high school is evident in the attitudes of parents and teachers towards students. Especially in the third year of high school, the study pressure faced by students has become a "shadow" that college students do not want to recall.
When you get into university, it will be easy", this statement is not groundless. Especially without the supervision and nagging of parents and the ear of teachers, students can freely arrange their own lives, and even sleep in black and white, and their mood has become relaxed and happy.
However, while the four years of college life may seem laid-back and beautiful, it is actually closely related to the individual student. At the same time, there are also "counselors" to manage the student's life, and if the relationship with the counselor is not good, college life can become bumpy.
How amazing is a counselor? "College students scold counselors for not approving leave, which makes people laugh! Although a college counselor is different from a "class teacher", it has important responsibilities like a class teacher. They need to deal with various trivial matters of students, such as leave of absence, activities, applications for party membership, scholarships and grants, etc., which are directly related to students' daily lives.
In college, many young counselors are the same age as the students, and sometimes even "older sisters" to the students. They have higher academic qualifications, have a good relationship with college students, and often become friends. However, there are also some students who are dismissive of counselors, believing that interacting with them is "sycophancy" and so on. When these students deliberately oppose the counselor, or even cause conflicts and quarrels, it is usually the students themselves who suffer.
A recent college counselor shared a chat with a student online, highlighting a conversation about taking time off. The student asked for leave in advance, saying that he had purchased a ticket, but he had an English class in the afternoon, and hoped that the counselor would approve the leave. The student's request seemed reasonable, but in fact it was full of arrogance, and he still bought a ticket even though he knew that there was a class in the afternoon, giving people the impression that he was reluctant to cooperate.
The counselor bluntly asked whether the leave could be approved, but the student said that he only grabbed the ticket for the day, and it was difficult to buy it if he transferred, suggesting that the counselor could be "accommodating". However, this kind of "cut first and then play" behavior obviously did not work, and the counselor was not easy to mess with, and resolutely refused the student's request for leave. At this time, the student got angry and accused the counselor of not being willing to communicate well, and thought that being a counselor was great and superior.
It is ironic that a college student is not allowed to take a leave of absence and then complain about the behavior of the counselor. How can you put the blame on a counselor just because you haven't granted a leave? How ridiculous is that? What's more, students take leave after purchasing tickets, which is uncomfortable for anyone.
The counselor claimed, "As long as I am notified in advance, I will approve it." If the student explains to the counselor when it is difficult to buy a ticket, and explains his behavior rationally, I believe that the counselor will not deliberately prevent the student from going home. However, a lack of basic politeness and humility can be unacceptable if a student is truant and tries to get the counselor to take the blame. After all, counselors are not "taking the blame" for students, so why should students be so strong?
Although college students have a "do their own thing" personality and skipping classes may seem commonplace, a counselor's job also includes ensuring the safety of students. Therefore, it is also reasonable not to approve a leave of absence. What's more, the attitude of college students also needs to be reviewed, stop blaming the counselors for being ruthless, after all, respect is mutual.
"Respect for teachers" is the first principle that college students should follow. The university is like a "small society", full of "human feelings". The relationship with the counselor and the teacher will affect all aspects, especially when it comes to ratings. It's not a good idea to have a bad deal with a counsellor and it will only put yourself in a bad position.
Although counselors usually do not attend classes, they will impart professional knowledge and mindsets, care about students' employment issues, and give guidance accordingly. Therefore, college students cannot think of counselors as laid-back and carefree existences. Even though many students have little contact with a counselor, that doesn't mean they aren't managed by a counselor.
Treat others with sincerity", college students should understand the meaning and reasoning of these four simple words, especially when getting along with counselors. Be proactive and put your position and attitude in perspective. Don't treat counselors as "nannies", and don't expect them to spoil your "princess disease, young master disease". College students don't ask for their own hardships.
Overall, it is essential to maintain a good relationship with a counselor. This is not to ask students to be too flattering, but to maintain a low-key and humble manner, and to treat the counsellor as an elder who is "both a teacher and a friend". Don't look at no one, but reflect a high-quality image, so that you can leave a good impression.
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