One of the most common mistakes we make in social interactions is not understanding the scale of getting along with acquaintances.
In front of strangers, we may behave cautiously and politely, but in front of acquaintances, we become so confident in our relationship that we lose our sense of balance.
There are several topics that need to be approached with caution when it comes to socializing with others. Even between acquaintances, these topics can easily cause embarrassment and discomfort and can damage relationships with others.
Never say these three words in front of someone you know. It's important to keep this in mind.
01: Don't ask about the other person's income.
No matter how close your relationship is, not asking about your partner's income is one of the social rules you should follow.
For most people, income is part of their personal privacy, and asking directly about the income of someone you know can be embarrassing and unpleasant.
Neither one's own financial situation nor the financial situation of others should be discussed openly, but should be protected.
After all, wealth and income are related to personal dignity and social status, so if such a question is asked in front of acquaintances, it will be difficult for them to answer.
It doesn't matter if the other person's income is higher or lower than yours, it's still an awkward situation.
If someone earns more than you, they may worry that your self-esteem is hurting or even that you owe money. People with lower incomes than you will think that you are deliberately asking this question to show off and make them feel uncomfortable.
Other people's income is their own labor income, and it has nothing to do with you. Not asking about other people's income is both a sign of respect for them and a form of self-discipline on your part.
02: Don't talk openly about your shortcomings.
While it's common for acquaintances to flirt with each other, the flirt should be limited to jokes and shouldn't hurt the other person's self-esteem or face.
If this teasing ends up pointing out the other person's shortcomings directly, the behavior is perceived as rude by the other person, especially in the presence of other people, even between acquaintances.
Everyone has their own shortcomings and shortcomings, but that doesn't mean you can blame them at will. Especially in public places, the self-esteem of others should be taken into account and the dignity of each person should be respected.
If you openly criticize someone else's shortcomings in front of your acquaintances, you not only hurt the other person, but also destroy each other's friendship and trust.
A true friend, of course, can point out the shortcomings of the other party, so that he can correct and improve. However, when pointing out shortcomings, it is also necessary to be careful about methods and opportunities so that good intentions do not turn into harm.
03: Criticize other friends.
Everyone is an individual and has different feelings about the friends around them. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, don't judge others by your own standards.
Evaluating other friends in front of acquaintances can cause arguments and discomfort.
What you think of this friend does not represent what an acquaintance thinks of this friend, and you can't fully understand their relationship.
Criticizing other friends in front of acquaintances can make them feel disrespectful and may even question you.
If you criticize him like this in front of others, he will think that your image in his mind has been affected, and it will be difficult to develop a rapport with you in the future.
Everyone has the freedom to make friends. Not criticizing others is a reflection of your style.
Even if you know people well, you need to be careful about your words and actions when interacting with people. Sometimes, estrangement or breakdown of a relationship isn't a big deal, it's just caused by your unintentional words.
I hope that everyone knows how to get along properly, manage their interpersonal relationships well, and do not alienate acquaintances.