**10,000 Fans Incentive Plan My name is Li Hao, 33 years old this year, I work as a middle manager of an Internet company, and I earn 18,000 yuan a month.
In this vibrant second-tier city, this kind of income allows my wife and me to live a comfortable middle-class life.
Sensitive, my college love, her wisdom and beauty once made my heart move, and finally came together.
During this year's Spring Festival, I decided to do something special - to invite my parents in the countryside to come to the city for the Chinese New Year, hoping that they can feel the warmth and prosperity of the city.
Sensitivity: There is some resistance at first, after all, there will always be friction when people from two worlds become one.
But I believe that home is a place where all love and difference can be embraced.
Unexpectedly, this decision became a turning point in our lives.
The arrival of our parents was like a litmus test, exposing a rift between us that we were not aware of.
Sensitive impatience, parental discomfort, the air in the home becomes thicker and thicker. In less than a week, it seems that the warmth of home is about to be replaced by coldness.
At this moment, I did something that completely changed my sensitive attitude - she was momentarily stunned.
This incident is not only a surprise for her, but also a profound education for all of us.
During the days when the conflict intensified, the atmosphere at home became increasingly tense.
There is a clear collision between the habits of parents and the fast pace of city life.
Their unfamiliarity with modern household appliances and their incomprehension of the details of urban life have made Sensitives feel unprecedented pressure.
She began to express her displeasure frequently, and I, caught in the middle, felt unusually tired and helpless.
Once, I came home a little late, and the atmosphere at home was particularly heavy.
I saw Sensitive sitting on the couch with a frown, apparently waiting for me, ready to discuss something.
The parents sat on the sidelines, their expressions a little embarrassed and uneasy.
We need to talk about your parents. Sensitive said straight to the point.
I know that this "talk" will not be simple. Our conversation quickly escalated into an argument.
Sensitively complaining about her parents' inability to adapt to the details of life puts a lot of pressure on her, and I feel that she lacks the understanding and tolerance she deserves.
During the argument, the parents stood up silently, saying that they did not want to be a burden on our lives and planned to go back to the countryside the next day.
At that moment, my heart was cut like a knife. I looked at Sensitive, hoping that she would take back what she had just said, but she was silent.
That night, I tossed and turned, thinking about how to resolve the impasse.
Eventually, I decided to take a position that would allow me to express my position without hurting anyone.
The next morning, I woke up earlier than usual.
I began to pack my bags and those of my parents, preparing to leave together and make a decisive gesture.
I hope that through this act, Sensitivity's awareness of the importance of family and the role each of us plays in this small community of life.
Sensitive was woken up by the sound of me moving my luggage, and she was surprised to see that I was preparing to leave. She asked me, "Did you really decide to leave with your parents?"”
I calmly replied, "Yes, if we can't live like a home, then I don't know how we can continue." ”
Sensitivity, apparently not expecting me to do this, her face showing surprise and unease.
I continued to pack my bags, and she was silent for a moment before beginning to express her feelings.
I ......I know I may have gone a little too far. I just felt depressed and didn't know what to do. The sensitive voice was choked with a hint of choking.
This is the first time in many days that we have communicated in the true sense of the word.
We sat down and thought again and again about how to improve the situation, how to make parents feel more comfortable in the city, and at the same time to make sensitivity less stressful.
After a long period of communication, we reached a series of consensuses.
We decided to change some of our habits and give our parents more time and space to adapt to city life.
What's more, both Sensitivity, and I realized that understanding and inclusion were the most important factors in maintaining harmony in this small family.
At that moment, Sensitive walked towards his parents and took the initiative to hug them for the first time, with tears in his eyes.
Her parents were also touched by this sincerity and hugged her tightly.
This scene, like the melting of ice and snow, dissipates all dissatisfaction and misunderstanding.
Instead of leaving as originally planned, we chose to stay and solve problems and face challenges together.
Although this experience was full of twists and turns, it taught us all a valuable lesson - home is a harbor that needs to be maintained by everyone.
After that incident, our lives changed dramatically.
Sensitive began to learn how to communicate with her parents, and her patience and understanding filled the whole home with warmth and harmony.
Parents are also gradually adjusting to life in the city, they start experimenting with modern appliances, and even occasionally go to the supermarket with Sensitive.
Our home, because of this conflict, has become stronger and better.
Through this experience, I deeply realized that the most precious thing in marriage and family life is not material wealth, but mutual understanding and tolerance.
Everyone has their own living habits and ways of thinking, and only through communication and hard work can we truly integrate into each other's world and build a harmonious family.
What I want to share with everyone is that no matter what difficulties and challenges you encounter, don't give up easily.
There is no substitute for the love between family members.
As long as we are willing to work hard, be understanding and tolerant, there is nothing that cannot be overcome.
This experience has made me cherish our home even more and cherish every time we spend together. Because I know that this is the truest and most precious happiness in life.
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