Hello, I'm Dongyue Yanai.
No matter how cold it is outside, I hope my words can bring warmth to your heart.
How many men still remember the desire to have eternity when he pursued the woman he loved!
How many men still remember the lifelong promise he made to the woman he loved!
To be faithful to his marriage is to fulfill the promise he made at the beginning. However, in this unpredictable society, the concept of marriage is more and more easily shaken by external reasons.
In marriage, some people betray their significant other in search of excitement. For such men, what they are most afraid of is being put forward by their wives these three requirements.
1. Can you share your real-time location on WeChat?
When I was camping with my girlfriend last month, I saw my girlfriend absent-minded and asked her what was wrong.
She said that the family couldn't get through, two hours had passed, and her husband hadn't replied in WeChat, and she was worried about what happened to her husband.
Seeing that she was getting more and more unable to sit still, I tried to chat with her and distract her.
Another hour passed, and her husband replied to her message, saying that she was going for a drink with a friend.
The girlfriend was worried that he was drunk and wanted to know that he was drinking in **, and asked him, can you share the real-time location in WeChat?
Unexpectedly, her husband reacted a little too much, saying that she didn't believe him in this way.
My girlfriend spent this camping with a low mood.
The day before yesterday, my best friend found me and said sadly that her husband had an extramarital affair and she bumped into me on the street.
When he went camping last month, he didn't share her real-time location with her, he just went to find a lover.
It turns out that a man who doesn't love you will be afraid to share his real-time location with you, he just doesn't want you to know where he is, and he doesn't want to leave clues for you to know.
For a man who doesn't love you, when you find that he doesn't reassure you, you have to analyze it more and pay more attention.
2. Can you let me look through your phone at any time?
Once, when I was on the bus, there was a couple in the front seat chatting together.
The boy plays with his mobile phone frequently, and he hears the girl say to the boy, "What's new?" The boy showed her his phone, he was chatting in the WeChat group of his classmates, and the girl played with her phone with peace of mind after reading it.
After a while, the girl asked, can you let me look through your phone at any time? The boy touched her head dotingly and said, Of course.
After speaking, he entered the girl's fingerprints into the mobile phone and told her the unlock code.
The girl said that her ex-brother-in-law was reluctant to show her sister his mobile phone at any time because her ex-brother-in-law had an extramarital affair and was afraid that her sister would know.
She believes that two people who love each other love each other deeply will tie the knot together. The mobile phone is a personal item, if the man really loves his wife, he will not guard his wife, and the contents of the mobile phone will be allowed to be read by her.
A man who has an extramarital affair doesn't want you to look through his phone at any time, he will try to hide the secret of his affair as much as possible to avoid letting you find clues in his phone.
You have to pay attention to his actions, don't be aware of it.
3. Can you let me dispose of your salary card at any time?
My friend Zhou Lin recently got divorced, and she said that her ex-husband was out of the wall, and she didn't want to waste herself in this marriage anymore.
Zhou Lin once asked her ex-husband, can you let me use your salary card at any time? Her ex-husband suddenly fell into deep thought, and didn't respond for a long time, so Zhou Lin didn't ask.
After half a month, she unintentionally saw her ex-husband's bank flow, and she couldn't believe it, and without giving it to the family, the monthly deposit was almost zero.
The feeling told her that her ex-husband was tired. She tried to find the traces, confirming that her guess was correct.
For her ex-husband who betrayed her, she decisively chose to divorce and no longer fall into this quagmire.
If a man's salary card is not transparent to you, he has the capital to go to other women.
If the money in his salary card is not willing to let you spend it on you, then there is a high probability that there are other people to spend money on. You need to re-examine whether your marriage is worth continuing.
Bai Yang once said:
Unchastity is the greatest force in destroying the family and destroying the relationship.If the beloved man has an extramarital affair, it will undoubtedly be a fatal blow to himself.
You must have a certain sense of the abnormal behavior of your beloved man, and don't let yourself be aware of it and go to the point where there is no salvation.
When you find that the man you love doesn't love you anymore, you might as well ask your heart what kind of outcome you want, whether it will continue or end. Once you've decided, go ahead and go in your own direction.