When Qin Hao proposed to Yi Nengjing, he once said: "I will never let a third party happen, if a third party appears, I will choose to end myself." ”
At that time, Qin Hao had not yet become famous, so this marriage proposal did not attract much attention, however, their wedding was held the following year and caused a sensation.
Su Mang, who was the editor-in-chief of the fashion magazine at the time, released a picture of their wedding, which also included the killer Gao Yuanyuan as a reference, which aroused heated discussions among netizens about Yi Nengjing's appearance.
What's even more puzzling is what makes Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing, who don't look like they are in the same world at all, resonate.
* After the variety show "Mother-in-law and Mother", people realized the tacit cooperation of these two, one is good at "making heaven and earth", and the other is good at dealing with "making heaven and earth".
The process of their acquaintance, love, marriage and children progressed very quickly.
We met in 2013.
In 2014, a marriage proposal.
We got married in 2015.
Born in 2016, she gave birth to a daughter.
They met at a charity event, when Yi Nengjing was 45 years old and had been divorced for five years, while Qin Hao was 35 years old and not yet married.
Yi Nengjing was actively pursued by Qin Hao.
After experiencing all kinds of setbacks, Yi Nengjing is very sober about her feelings and firmly believes that the next person will be her final choice in this life. She didn't want to take any more risks and was ready to die alone.
When pursuing her Qin Hao, Yi Nengjing did not hide her situation, bluntly saying that the two were 10 years apart, she had a fierce emotional experience, and she loved her son deeply, so she couldn't give all her love to the man.
Since we can't be together and the possibility of getting married is very small, there is no need to continue wasting time, so I decided to refuse Qin Hao.
Qin Hao was not intimidated by Yi Nengjing's resolute attitude, and she received a text message from Qin Hao in the early hours of the morning.
He used to be in a relationship with his girlfriend who was 10 years younger than him, but eventually they broke up, so age doesn't matter.
Tomorrow, I will ask Yi Nengjing to come over to discuss the marriage.
It's amazing that they only knew each other for a few days and started talking about getting married.
The two began a romance that spanned the gap in age, career, fame and experience.
When visiting her parents, Yi Nengjing was very nervous, worried that there might be an embarrassing situation where her future father-in-law and mother-in-law asked her to break up with Qin Hao.
Qin Hao's parents are very old-fashioned people.
The difference between the north and the south, the age difference, and Yi Nengjing's emotional experience in the past all pose many difficulties.
Qin Hao is ready for a "protracted battle" with his parents to convince them.
Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing were surprised that the attitude of Qin's father and Qin's mother was not sticking to tradition, but very transparent and open-minded, and they respected Qin Hao's choice.
Qin's mother educated Qin Hao seriously, reminding him to be responsible for his decisions to the end, and not to disappoint or hurt Yi Nengjing, after all, she had already had a marriage.
When Yi Nengjing visited Qin Hao's home for the first time, she was warmly welcomed by Qin Hao's parents and prepared a table of sumptuous dishes to welcome her.
They did not pursue Yi Nengjing's past too much, nor did they dislike her, but mentioned to her many of Qin Hao's shortcomings in detail, hoping that she could be more tolerant of Qin Hao.
At the wedding, Dad Qin blessed them, which was moving.
He said to Qin Hao, although you are younger than Yi Nengjing, as a man, you should take on more responsibilities, and they will love Xiaojing like a daughter.
Yi Nengjing struggled to get pregnant after marriage, but her parents-in-law were very considerate of this, and they thought that it didn't matter if they didn't have children.
Qin's father and Qin's mother paid full attention and recognition to Yi Nengjing, treated her sincerely as their daughter-in-law and family, and felt deeply distressed about what happened to her. At the same time, they are slowly making up for Yi Nengjing's past shortcomings and regrets.
The relationship between the two is very good, so the relationship between Yi Nengjing and her mother-in-law is known as a model of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship.
The mother-in-law never interfered in the affairs of the husband and wife, and even played the role of the glue in the relationship between the husband and wife.
Qin Hao, a straightforward man, is not interested in romance at all. Qin's mother repeatedly reminded him to praise Yi Nengjing, but Qin Hao asked cooperatively: "Mom, where is our ancestral grave, what about the smoke, I am so happy." ”
One sentence made everyone laugh.
They were once considered by the public to be a couple who were not very compatible, but they unexpectedly showed a very harmonious side, as if they also had a feeling of water melting.
Yi Nengjing is a little hypocritical, likes to be coquettish, and expresses strong desires. She usually says some sour love words to Qin Hao, and often complains that Qin Hao is not romantic enough.
Qin Hao is an unpretentious person, he can often make Yi Nengjing speechless with one sentence.
Yi Nengjing complained that Qin Hao treated the dog more patiently than she did with her.
It doesn't say as much as you do.
As long as you keep it silent every day, are you still willing to marry it?
Qin Hao: That's right, even if it can speak, it's impossible for me to marry it.
Qin Hao was asked by Yi Nengjing to call her "baby" or "baby".
Qin Hao: Baby, are you willing to be quiet?
The mosquito bite swollen Yi Nengjing's eyelids, and she coquettishly said that she was going to the hospital.
Qin Hao said that she was too sensitive, and his family had never been in danger of being bitten by mosquitoes.
After giving birth to her daughter, Yi Nengjing's figure has not yet recovered, and she often feels anxious about her posture and appearance.
She asked Qin Hao if she would think that the girls outside were very beautiful when she saw her.
Qin Hao said that some of the girls outside are very beautiful, and they are indeed beautiful, but this does not mean that you are not beautiful, nor does it mean that others cannot be beautiful.
No matter what tricks Yi Nengjing played, Qin Hao was always able to accept it easily, and it seemed that he didn't know how to romance and reconciliation, but in fact, he could respond to her in a relaxed and humorous way, instead of letting her bear all the burden of emotional expression alone. Every time Yi Nengjing was amused by Qin Hao, she laughed.
Qin Hao once told a joke that when he mentioned Yi Nengjing's birthday, he wrote her a greeting card with eight words written on it: As long as you work hard, I will not let you down.
Qin Hao clearly responded to Yi Nengjing's "doing" and "hypocrisy" in real life:
Whatever you want me to do, you can put it forward with confidence, and I will do it if I can. But I don't want to do it, and I will make it clear that you don't need to feel guilty, we are equal.
She likes to call the shots, and he is willing to accept and bear it, a happy marriage does not need to be quiet, and each other should be equal.
Qin Hao is more inclined to express love through action, rather than empty romance.
He understands Yi Nengjing's hardships and difficulties when she was young, and he also knows that she is emotionally insecure, and he understands her deep desires.
He promised that he would never let the family be anxious about money.
Yi Nengjing craves recognition and respect.
Qin Hao announced his relationship on the red carpet of the Berlin Film Festival, which attracted the attention of ** and the audience. Although the two had just started dating, Qin Hao quickly introduced Yi Nengjing to his relatives and friends.
Yi Nengjing loves romance and dreams of becoming a princess.
Qin Hao carefully planned the marriage proposal ceremony, proposed to her in the presence of relatives and friends, and held a grand and romantic wedding for her.
Although Qin Hao is 10 years younger than Yi Nengjing, from the perspective of psychological maturity, his performance seems to be more mature and stable than Yi Nengjing.
Yi Nengjing treats Qin Hao in the same way, she is not only Qin Hao's lover, but also the person who knows him best and understands him.
During the period when Qin Hao met Yi Nengjing, he was full of confusion about his career and future, and he began to doubt whether it was right to insist on choosing the path of literary films.
In order to make a living and support his family, he began to consider taking on some scripts that were not so high-quality.
She tells him that he doesn't understand how much she admires him and aspires to be an actor like him.
The opportunity to work with great directors, participate in international film festivals, and play all the roles you want, regardless of the remuneration.
After Qin Hao heard Yi Nengjing's words, he felt that he was no longer alone.
His persistence and strict choice of scripts led to one masterpiece after another. That's why.
In fact, Yi Nengjing played a huge role in supporting Qin Hao's career.
Whenever Qin Hao has a new work, Yi Nengjing will always write exquisite small compositions on social **, describing Qin Hao's preparation for the role and the process of entering the role with delicate words, and leading the audience to appreciate Qin Hao from her perspective, so as to help Qin Hao gain more fan support.
Qin Hao is not good at expressing and maintaining interpersonal relationships, and this is Yi Nengjing's strength, she is good at communication and expression, and is good at dealing with interpersonal relationships.
It is rumored that a director once intended to invite Qin Hao to star in a movie, but it happened that Qin Hao had no free time, so he politely declined. It's not a big deal.
After learning of the situation, Yi Nengjing took the initiative to add the director's WeChat and sincerely explained the reason to him. She even flew from Taipei to Beijing to have dinner with the director to apologize and pave the way for the next collaboration.
In Qin Hao's career, Yi Nengjing can be called his strongest supporter and publicist.
Over the years, Yi Nengjing has mainly focused on her family and taking care of her daughter, while her career progress has slowed down a lot. On the contrary, Qin Hao is in the rising period of his career and is working hard outside.
Qin Hao said that Yi Nengjing is not only a writer and a successful actress, she can earn as much money as anyone can earn, but she chose to leave the job opportunity to him. Compared to the hard work of taking care of her children at home, his work outside is nothing at all.
He will always remember Yi Nengjing's dedication and sacrifice.
I truly admire, respect and adore Yi Nengjing, who began working at the age of 16 to support her family and has achieved things that he has never been able to achieve in her entire life, and she has something deep inside that he does not have.
Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing seem to be people from different worlds, but in fact they are each other's most complementary partners.
They treat each other with the respect, understanding and tolerance they deserve, and they always look at each other with appreciation, no matter what situation they find themselves in.
Yi Nengjing once asked Qin Hao what he thought was the most correct thing he had done so far.
Qin Hao said that he chose the profession of actor as his lifelong career, and married his childhood idol as his wife.
Yi Nengjing's answer to the same question is that she didn't become better just to marry you, but to become a better version of herself after marrying you.
Perhaps this is the meaning that a good and harmonious marriage gives to people, it can make the people who love each other happier and make them a better version of themselves.
They have been holding hands for ten years, and their relationship is still sweet.
Bless them. - I wish them all the best.
Qin Hao Yi Nengjing