The best thing to cry is "The World", because the plot is too real, in the words of netizens, "crying numb".
Especially the famous scene of the father-son quarrel between Zhou's father and the "old pimple" Zhou Bingkun has aroused strong resonance from countless audiences.
Watching this play, male viewers spent tears and cigarettes; As a woman, I have also been tear-jerking several times by the emotional outbursts of these two big men.
The conflict between father and son vividly reflects the relationship between parents and children in too many worlds, love and hate are so strong, and they are all moving forward in bearing. In the end, there is only one sentence: there is no right or wrong, only life.
However, also in life itself, can we consciously reflect on the relationship and ourselves to reduce some of the burden, and live more independently and lightly? I believe so.
Like Bingkun, making his parents admit and satisfy himself has poked at the sore spot of many people.
I remember when I was a child, my grandmother often said that children are the ten fingers of their parents, and it is impossible to stretch them out on one side, no matter which one you bite, it hurts.
On the level of consciousness, it is as if parents are saying that they love each and every one of their children, without distinction. But the reality is that children can clearly feel how partiality their parents are, and parents often refuse to admit it.
Next, we need to think about it: what is the meaning of "satisfying parents"? Translated in the language of psychology, it satisfies the narcissism of parents.
The combination of the three sons and daughters of the Zhou family is to satisfy their father. The eldest son Bingyi is responsible for the class and façade, the daughter Professor Zhou Rong represents the pinnacle of culture, and the younger son Bingkun is sympathetic to the trivialities of life.
Who raised such three children, the scenery swept all the people's families.
Such satisfaction, to be precise, satisfies the almighty narcissism of parents as the subject, how cool it is, and how cool it is, children are just vassals.
Especially Bingkun, the role he assumes is the most unsuccessful and difficult to be recognized by the outside world, and he is the most aggrieved.
Many people feel: those who have a chance to fly away, and those who have no interest stay by their side to repay their kindness.
When the family is in trouble, and the parents are old, they can gradually recognize the goodness of this child who repays the kindness.
And for this child, a lifetime of hard work, the second half has a chance to be recognized by parents.
This recognition is still based on the parents.
This is also a stubbornness and loyalty of the child. The father said to Bingkun: "Among the children, you are the most satisfying to me, but you are too strong. Because of the toughness, you get beaten the most. ”
In fact, the father will not understand that the children who are fierce are beaten because they have been waiting to be truly seen, and they are loyal to their parents for recognition and tenderness.
It is not until the child is lit up by the approval of his parents that his sense of subjectivity has a foundation and develops. I confirmed in my parents' eyes that I was fine, and I had strength from then on.
At the same time, it is only when one's subject is surrendered to oneself that one begins to realize that oneself exists as a subject.
There is a detail in the play: when Bingkun and his father quarreled at their most intense, his father beat him, and then his son Congcong rushed in and pushed his grandfather away and yelled, "Don't hit my dad!" ”
The appearance of Cong Cong woke up two generations.
On the one hand, Zhou's father realized that his son, he was also the father of a younger child, and his son was not his subordinate, but another subject.
On the other hand, Bingkun suddenly found that he was already an upright father, and was protected and loved by his youngest son
When Bingkun's sense of subjectivity was awakened and he no longer begged for recognition as a subsidiary of his father, he was able to accept it happily: You are all a father, and your father beats you, isn't this happiness? At this point, the father and son reconciled.
"The World" is a long story created in the most traditional and simple way**, full of sincerity and a sense of mission. With his nearly 70 years of life accumulation, life experience and wisdom, the writer has fulfilled his wish to "write a work with a sense of age that reflects the life of urban commoners". I feel that the author wants to give an answer to himself as a writer and an intellectual, and also to give an answer to such a new era in which he lives.
The writer said that "The World" used words to draw a group portrait of the hometown people he knew and knew. Among them are middle- and high-ranking cadres, university professors, public security officers, cultural curators, newspaper editors, businessmen, directors, and ordinary people, as well as more on-the-job and laid-off workers......In the changes of the times, their fate has been ups and downs, and each of them has both a clear imprint of the times and a distinct personality.
Generally speaking, the TV series has been filmed very well, but there are still many deletions compared to the original work, and many details are described more thoroughly in the original work.
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