Albert Einstein once said, "Everyone is a genius, but if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, he will believe that he is a fool for the rest of his life."
In this pluralistic world, there is no standard answer to success, and every child is a unique individual.
Some children like literature, some children are better at art, some children like leadership, and some children are more willing to contribute silently, these differences are not a problem, but a rich and colorful educational treasure.
Purely by yelling at the child or strict discipline, it is basically in vain, and the child is even more disgusted, I came over like this, until a few months ago, I studied for a period of time in the Gaotu beautiful family, and I learned too much with Mr. Song Li, at first because after the junior high school, the child's learning was originally in the middle of the stream, but after the junior high school added geography and biology, the child was very hard at the beginning, but in the second half of the year, the opportunity was very backward and even he was rotten and did not study!
The family was also very anxious, but they couldn't control their emotions, which caused the smell of gunpowder at home to be particularly strong during that time, basically blowing up at one point, and the child was becoming more and more rebellious. Ask the teacher for help, the teacher let the science guide, recommended the Gaotu beautiful family, the first half of the second year of junior high school, basically we stabilized, the child also realized the value of learning, caught up, and the atmosphere at home was also good, so it is worth learning.
It is precisely because of this diversity that education is so beautiful and complex, like a giant encyclopedia, where every page is a child's story.
Therefore, the real task of education is not to mold each child into the same mold, but to develop their unique personality, awaken their inner potential, and guide them to find their own path to success.
For parents, it is our most precious mission to understand their children's characteristics, listen patiently to their children's voices, carefully observe their children's interests, and then provide them with appropriate resources and opportunities to encourage them to pursue their dreams.
Education is an art of planting, not a container to fill. I believe that every child is a unique flower, and can bloom their own beauty in the right environment. High Path