There is a famous saying that "education is not indoctrination, but the ignition of a fire".
This quote reminds us that the essence of education is to arouse children's inner interest and potential, so that they can grow through exploration, and emotional comfort and support are important elements that ignite their inner fire.
I am also a person from the past, as parents, just rely on our own thinking, and even emotionally educate children, there is no scientific method, it is basically counterproductive, the parent-child relationship will not improve, and it will also delay the child's ** development period!
I suggest that I still find a professional to consult to solve this problem, I came here like this, the child really can't discipline well, we are looking for a good family on the high road, Song Li teacher is a national second-level psychological counselor, specifically for teenagers who are tired of school and psychological counseling, the content is simple to understand, very easy to understand, and can also propose different solutions to different problems of parents.
I learned a lot of family education knowledge from Mr. Song Li, realized my wrong way of education, and finally knew how to get along with my children correctly, and now I am more like friends with my children.
This reminds me that in my memory, there has always been a pair of hands gently soothing, I once cried in swaddling clothes, I once fell down in running, I was lost in difficult situations, and I was groped in the dark......
It was these hands that gave me courage, taught me to be stable, and taught me to be fearless and face the road ahead.
As children grow up, they encounter a variety of emotional problems, which can be anxiety, loneliness, and frustration, or they can be excited, curious, and passionate.
The role of parents is to give their children a safe harbor and a place to tell their hearts with a pair of warm hands in these emotional fluctuations.
Some people say that the process of education unfolds slowly, like a tree, and grows naturally.
Although this world is full of materialistic desires and galloping forward, what children want is very simple, a gentle comfort, a warm smile, and a kind call. High Path