Growing up, born different, children's temperament is not the only one, there is no good or bad, each temperament of children, is a unique surprise, has a unique way to get along with the world.
Some parents often worry that their children are too introverted, and they will not be welcome or make friends in kindergarten, and many people say that this world is the home of extroverted personality.
I am also a person from the past, as parents, just rely on our own thinking, and even emotionally educate children, there is no scientific method, it is basically counterproductive, the parent-child relationship will not improve, and it will also delay the child's ** development period!
I suggest that I still find a professional to consult to solve this problem, I came here like this, the child really can't discipline well, we are looking for a good family on the high road, Song Li teacher is a national second-level psychological counselor, specifically for teenagers who are tired of school and psychological counseling, the content is simple to understand, very easy to understand, and can also propose different solutions to different problems of parents.
I learned a lot of family education knowledge from Mr. Song Li, realized my wrong way of education, and finally knew how to get along with my children correctly, and now I am more like friends with my children.
But I want to say that everyone's personality and growth law are different, extroversion is not a special advantage, introversion is not a special problem, introversion and extroversion, just the innate character of children, and introverts, love to be alone, often have superb insight and understanding.
Education expert Lin Wencai also said: "A child's "natural temperament" cannot be changed, if it is forcibly requested, an "introverted" child "extroverted" is undoubtedly asking for a green plant to bloom bright flowers."
So, dear parents, please stop labeling "timid" and "unsociable" on your children, which will increase your children's psychological burden.
We must look at each child's individual differences with the right eye, learn to accept and appreciate, and learn to accept and discover the treasures contained in children's innate temperament. High Path