Truly wise women know how to make decisions in life, and they know what to meddle in and what to let go. It is this kind of wisdom that allows them to live freely, as if they were born with a good life. And the following 3 things are that really smart women will not touch.
1. Regardless of idleness
On the top of the mountain lived an old fox, witty and leisurely.
On a daily basis, it only focuses on its own life, ignores all idle things, and lives very comfortably.
One day, a young and curious fox came to the mountains and asked the old fox for the secret of living such a comfortable life.
The old fox smiled and told it that the reason why he was able to live so comfortably was because he never took the initiative to take care of idle things that had nothing to do with him.
But when it comes to what it can, it will not hesitate to help others.
After hearing this, the young fox understood, and also learned to let go of idle things and began to live a comfortable life.
Idle things, like a stone pressing on the heart, will not only make people tired, but may also cause unnecessary trouble.
We are often bothered by the trivial things around us, but in fact, many things have nothing to do with us.
It's like a pebble thrown into a lake, and although it can stir up some ripples, it will eventually return to calm.
We are not the center of the world, and many things are out of our control. Therefore, it is the wisdom of life to learn to let go of those idle things that have nothing to do with you.
It's like a clever chess player who knows when to make a move, when to let go, and let the situation develop naturally.
Only when we are truly aware of our own insignificance can we better appreciate the beauty of life and focus on what really matters.
In the urban hit drama "Ode to Joy", the character of Andy perfectly interprets this wisdom.
As a successful career woman, she is smart, decisive and has a clear plan for work and life.
When the neighbor Xiaoqu asked her for help due to emotional problems, she decisively refused.
Because she understands that emotional matters need to be faced and solved by the parties themselves, and the intervention of outsiders will only make things more complicated.
It is this sober awareness that allows Andy to focus on his career and life without being bothered by trivial matters.
There are so many trivial things in life, and our time and energy are limited.
There is a good saying: "If you are less nosy and less idle, life will not be so tiring." ”
A truly intelligent lady who knows that self-management is more important than anything else. They are by no means easily involved in the private affairs of others, but are fully engaged in their own lives and live a sober and free life.
2. Regardless of other people's feelings
In Jane Eyre, a literary classic, the heroine Jane Eyre is portrayed as an independent, resilient woman.
Not only is she independent in life, but she is also very strong mentally. She never sets foot in the emotional world of others, and always maintains a detached mentality.
She is like a clear stream, flowing quietly in the long river of life, without being contaminated with a trace of dust.
She is well aware of the complexity and fragility of feelings, so she always respects the choices of others and does not judge or interfere easily.
Her detachment is not indifference, but a great wisdom that perceives the world after the fact, and a deep understanding and tolerance of human nature.
She is like a cloud in the sky, drifting quietly, neither blocking the rays of the sun nor being easily affected by the wind, she exists in her own way, neither ostentatious nor humble.
When Jane Eyre met and fell in love with Mr. Rochester, she always stood for her independence and dignity.
She will not give up her principles and beliefs in order to get love, and she will not rely on anyone.
Even in the face of Mr. Rochester's wealth and social status, she never wavered in her convictions.
When Jane Eyre found out that Mr. Rochester already had a wife, she chose to leave.
Her choice was not motivated by resentment or revenge, but out of respect for affection.
She understands that feelings are a matter between two people and cannot be forced.
Even though she loved Mr. Rochester dearly, she could not tolerate his emotional infidelity.
This attitude of Jane Eyre shows her qualities as a woman with real brains.
She never rashly steps into the emotional territory of others, let alone imposes her personal will on others.
She knows the preciousness of respecting the emotional choices of others, like a brilliant gem, and cares for it with her heart. At the same time, she is also working hard for her future and happiness, like a diamond in the grinding, going through hardships and shining brightly.
This kind of independence, perseverance, and respect for others shines like a rare gem in today's society.
In the world of complicated interpersonal relationships, she always sticks to her principles and maintains a pure heart, like clear spring water, washing away the dust of the world.
Her quality is not only a kind of personal cultivation, but also a manifestation of social value.
On the road of pursuing self-growth, she practices care and respect for others and society with practical actions.
This quality is like a bright star, guiding us to continue to move forward in the journey of life and bloom our own light.
3. Regardless of other people's family affairs
In "Dream of Red Mansions", Xue Baochai, a wise and brave woman, always maintains a clear mind and stable emotions in the complicated family affairs and interpersonal relationships in Jiafu.
Whether it is dealing with trivial affairs in the house or dealing with interpersonal disputes, she responds with a calm and calm attitude, and never takes a stand or gets involved easily.
Like a clever chess player, she quietly observed the development of the situation, judged the situation, and calmly responded to it.
On the big stage of Jiafu, Xue Baochai has become an indispensable role with his extraordinary wisdom and outstanding talent.
Family affairs, like complicated balls of yarn, are entangled with inextricable emotions and interpersonal relationships, and the slightest carelessness may fall into them, and it is difficult to extricate themselves.
For the mystery of this, Xue Baochai has a unique opinion.
She knows very well that the entanglements and disputes in Jiafu are like cobwebs in autumn, intricate.
Therefore, she always avoids these distractions as lightly as catkins, and does not easily get involved in other people's family affairs, so as not to be involved in them for no reason. In this disturbed world, Xue Baochai, with his unique wisdom and calmness, is like a quiet lake, undisturbed.
In life, really smart women will not meddle in their affairs, nor will they meddle in other people's emotional entanglements. They know how to make trade-offs and how to focus on their lives.
This attitude allows them to live an easy, well-to-do life. They understand that only by focusing on their lives can they truly be happy and fulfilled.
I hope that all women can become women with brains and wisdom. By focusing on their lives, they will be able to live a life of ease, good life, and have a life full of happiness.
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