Since letting goTwo-child policySince then, the tide of fertility has risen, and many families hope to be able to make up a good word and have an ideal child. Sometimes, however, it backfires. I have a friend who gave birth to a son in her first child, and she originally hoped to have a daughter in her second child, but after calculating the days and adjusting her body, she finally gave birth to a healthy son. While parents want their children to be healthy, the cost of raising a child is simply too high today.
People tend to jokingly refer to the permutations of several combinations, with the brothers coming last. In the past, in rural households, the more boys the better, because boys could help their parents with manual work. But now, agricultural production is gradually automated, and farming at home is much simpler. People's concepts have also changed, no matter whether they give birth to a boy or a girl, as long as they are healthy and filial.
Nowadays, people are interested in:Have a babyThe requirements are more on quality than quantity. Having too many children will only place more of a burden on parents and children. Therefore, no matter how many children you have or how many children you have, your parents will want to be able to give them the bestlifeCondition. However, when the number of children increases and the conditions are limited, the children may not be able to get the best.
I have a friend around me, they are a dual-income family, according to the standards of the average family, one child is enoughlifeAlthough it can't be considered rich, it is also ordinary, enough to eat and drink, have some savings, and have a house and a car. However, they thought that one child was too little, and they were worried that they would get sick when they got old in the future, and there was no one to discuss when there was something at home, so they decided to have a second child.
They had always hoped to have a daughter, but they had a son, which made them feel stressed in an instant. In order to copelifeIn addition to going to work, they also look for part-time jobs, short-term jobs, or use their spare time to start businesses. Their friends will also jokingly say that they will earn more money by having two sons, and some suggest that they buy a house and a car for their sons, and strive to find a daughter-in-law as soon as possible.
Although these words are insincere, those who listen to them will feel something. My friend felt that these words were mocking the decision to have two sons, which made him feel bad. They started looking around because the price of the house had been going up, and they were worried that it would continue to rise, so they decided to take out a loan to buy a second home. However, such a decision made themlifeThe pressure is even heavier, and they have to take out another loan to buy a car, and the monthly repayment has exceeded their salary alone. Still, as soon as you get home and see the smiling face of the second child, all this pressure disappears.
Having two sons does put a lot of pressure on the family. Children's studies, marriage problems, and houses and cars are more worrying and stressful than other groups of families. However, no matter what, as long as the whole family is healthyPeace, the child is filial, and the birth of a boy and a girl is the same. A child's gender does not determine their futureCriticalIt's about whether they can be a pairSocialBeneficial people. Giving birth to and raising a child is already a difficult task, and the success of this task depends not only on the child's gender, but also on the parent's parenting style, family relationships, and moreSocialsupport and assistance from the environment.
Having a second child means more responsibility and stress for parents. In the past, the birth of a boy was seen as a family interest in rural families, and boys could help their parents in farm work and help their families in the fields from an early age. However, withSocialAs agriculture becomes more automated, farm work becomes relatively simple, and there are fewer opportunities for boys to help. People's attitudes have also begun to change, both men and women, as long as they are healthy and filial children, it is the hope of their parents.
However, the current oneSocialHigher requirements are put forward for raising children. Parents are eager to provide their children with the best educational resources so that they can receive a good education and have a better future. With limited material conditions, raising multiple children is bound to increaseEconomyand the pressure of energy. Parents not only have to deal with their children's school fees, but also childrenlifeFees and other basic expenses, as well as the additional burden of marriage. Especially for families with two sons, parents are often worried about the pressure of buying a house and getting married in the future, because in the traditional concept, marriage requires a certain amountEconomyfoundation, and the man usually needs to provide a house as a matrimonial house. Combined, these burdens can be stressful for parents.
However,SocialWe are gradually recognizing this dilemma. withTwo-child policyVarious relevant policies have also been introduced to provide certain subsidies and benefits for families. For example, some regions offer a two-child tax reduction policy to help families alleviate itEconomyBurden. In addition, some schools also provide preferential policies for families with more than two children, such as tuition fee reduction. These initiatives have undoubtedly reduced some of the burden on families and also facilitatedSocialThe harmonious development of the .
Faced with the pressure of having a second child, every family will have different choices. Some families may be overwhelmedEconomyand the pressure of energy to give up on having another child, while some families will insist on pursuing their expectations and decide to have two or more children. Every family has different standards and values, and no matter how many children are born, as long as it is for the happiness and health of the children, they are worthy of respect.
The definition of happiness varies from person to person, and each family has its own standards of happiness. Some people believe that as long as the family is harmonious and the children are healthy and happy, it is the greatest happiness; Some people think,Economyand material conditions are the guarantee of happiness; Others believe that the education and growth environment of children is the real happiness. Regardless of the family's choices, the most important thing is to be able to face it with a positive mindsetlifepressure to constantly create a better for yourself and your childrenlifeCondition.
In my opinion, the family is happyCriticalIt's about balance and understanding. Husbands and wives should support and understand each other and share the responsibility of raising children. Whether a boy or a girl is born, they should be given the best education and care to nurture their health, independence and sense of responsibility. At the same time,SocialMore support and assistance should be provided to families, especially for families with multiple children, and more relevant policies should be put in place to reduce their stress.
All in all, the pressure of having a second child does exist, but that doesn't mean having more children means greater happiness. Family happiness depends more on the relationship and mutual assistance between family members, as well as the education and nurturing of children. Regardless of whether there is a boy or a girl, as long as the whole family is healthyPeace, mutual care, filial piety to parents, no matter what kind of combination is a happy family.