The four famous works written in the Ming and Qing dynasties are the treasures of China's world, among which the Dream of Red Mansions is known as the encyclopedia of feudal society, not only because of its vivid image in character building, but also because of its richness in contentOn the surface, it seems to be the rise and fall of Jiafu and the other three major families, but in fact, it also shows the decay of the family under the feudal society.
In addition, the love tragedy interspersed in it is also very attractive to readers, the most obvious is the emotional entanglement between Bao Dai and Chai, Jia Baoyu as the most favored existence in Jiafu, a very gentleman, can almost do whatever he wants in Jiafu,But it is still difficult to grasp your love under the general trend.
Although he was tempted by the "Sister Lin" who came from afar, many people in Jiafu also knew about it, but in the end, he married Xue Baochai because of the helplessness of realityAlthough the two got married, it was a forced marriage, so soon after the marriage, Jia Baoyu left Xue Baochai, the reason is not only because of the lack of emotion, but also because of a reality that he can't accept.
Xue Baochai and Lin Daiyu are very important female characters in the Dream of Red Mansions, and they are also similar to the existence of rivals in love, so the author has described the two in great detail, although there are many characters created, but they are always inferior to these two, because of their different backgrounds, the two also show a large gap in personality, so the performance of Jia Baoyu is also different.
The reason for the formation of this personality gap is the difference in origin, because of her parents, Lin Daiyu has also had poetry and books since she was a child, and she originally had only one layer of kinship with Jiafu, but there are unforeseen circumstances, and Lin Daiyu's parents have passed away one after anotherTherefore, she was taken to Jiafu and had to start another life under the fence.
Xue Baochai is different, she has been the pearl of the Xue family among the four major families since she was a child, whether it is the education or living environment that surpasses Lin Daiyu a lot, just the identity of a "daughter of the Xue family" is incomparable to Lin Daiyu, but on the other hand, the difference in the growth environment has a greater impact on personality.
Xue Baochai grew up in the family since she was a child, because of the influence of education and environment, she very much identified with and abided by the rules of feudal etiquette, and after losing her father, her mother focused on cultivating her, the main purpose is to let her abide by the rulesThis also defined Xue Baochai later, basically the image of a daughter-in-law of a big family.
After Xue Baochai became sensible, she actually didn't like the rigid rules of the feudal system and etiquette, but she didn't show it, and she didn't dare to resist directly. Lin Daiyu is completely different, because her mother died early, and her father cultivated her talent while developing her slightly rebellious characterThis later created Lin Daiyu's spirit of daring to resist.
After entering Jiafu, although it was a life under the fence, she did not suppress her character, refused to flatter others, and when she was not satisfied, Sister Lin would also open her mouth to ridicule, and her cognition of feudal etiquette was also blurred because of the loss of her mother in her early yearsNaturally, Jia Baoyu's feelings will not give up easily because of family background and background issues.
Although Lin Daiyu is rebellious, she also knows how to observe words and feelings, consider the emotions of others, especially Jia Baoyu, who she likes, when tasting tea, Daiyu can always understand Jia Baoyu's temperament, perhaps because of her previous hard experience, Lin Daiyu will also care about her subordinates, and share tea with her subordinates, and there is not much city government in her heart.
Xue Baochai is also very good to Jia Baoyu, and even most people in Jiafu agree with this relationship, although they have their own Xue family's eldest lady's shelf, but the tenderness in their hearts has always been shown to Jia BaoyuFor example, Jia Baoyu was bedridden after being punished, and Xue Baochai also went to visit and care for him with ointment.
In terms of overall personalities, there are big differences between these two women, but they have reached an agreement on one point, that is, their feelings for Jia Baoyu, but according to the personalities of the two women, they are destined to be unable to reconcile in this matter, so Jia Baoyu must have a choice.
Jia Baoyu can be called an amorous person in the dream of Red Mansions, as early as when he traveled in the fantasy realm, the police fantasy fairy Gu made an evaluation of Jia Baoyu, which is basically summarized as a word "lewd", from the setting of the story itself, the police fantasy fairy is the guide in the too illusory realm.
knows the past and the future, and sees through the rise and fall of Jiafu, so she should know Jia Baoyu very well, which means that her judgment of Jia Baoyu is very accurateOf course, the "lewdness" mentioned here is not simply indulging in beauty, but mainly emphasizing Jia Baoyu's amorousness.
In the realm of too illusory, the police fairy tried to make Jia Baoyu understand the current family's predicament, in order to inherit the family business of Jiafu and solve the disasters that may occur later, but Jia Baoyu didn't seem to realize thisAt this time, the police fairy thought that Jia Baoyu was too young, so he couldn't comprehend these things.
Therefore, in the too illusory realm, he taught Jia Baoyu "the matter of cloud and rain", and let Jia Baoyu, who was only eleven years old at the time, and his sister Keqing "try it", although it was in a dream, but it was also a real thing for Jia Baoyu, and it was in Qin Keqing's bedroom, so the purpose was not only to show Jia Baoyu's amorousness, but also to let Jia Baoyu's psychological and physical growth.
Soon after, because of Jia's mother's excessive doting on Jia Baoyu, she mixed with a group of maid women, which caused the "first taste of clouds and rain in dreams" to quickly enter realitysoon had a relationship with the maid "attack", which was also the beginning of Jia Baoyu's amorous feelings, and he was entangled with many women.
The first is Musk Yue, this is in the twentieth episode, Qingwen saw Jia Baoyu and Musk Yue showing a very intimate attitude, although there is some yin and yang weirdness when expressing, but it cannot deny the unusual relationship between the twoIn addition, the maid Bichen also seems to have an extraordinary relationship with Jia Baoyu, Qingwen once said that Bichen urged Baoyu to take a bath, and it was two or three hours to go.
In addition, Jia Baoyu didn't seem to care very much when he bumped into a woman who had an ambiguous relationship with him and others, which once again showed his amorous character, Jia Baoyu was not very old at that time, and it could basically be regarded as puberty.
Therefore, the unusual relationship with these girls is a kind of satisfaction of the physiological needs of pubertyAfter the professor of the police fairy, Jia Baoyu even regarded this behavior as a way to bring the relationship between sisters closer, so there was not much emotional contribution.
But after Lin Daiyu entered Jia's Mansion and had an intersection with Jia Baoyu, his emotional tendencies seemed to be clear, and the Lin sister in front of him seemed to be the person he really wanted to stay with for the rest of his life, but the reality of the situation caused many obstacles to Jia BaoyuThis relationship is destined to end without a hitch.
Although Jiafu is not as good as the palace, just a "mansion" is a big family, a family that has a connection with the palace, so it is the same as the palace, and any marriage between the children must be considered for the long-term development of the family, and there is no room for choice.
For Lin Daiyu, although both parties are willing, this relationship is still impossible, because it is not conducive to the long-term development of JiafuAt this point, Jia Yuanchun, who was in the palace and became the imperial concubine, had already planned for Jia Baoyu.
If you want to make Jiafu long-term, Jia Baoyu should have worked hard and become an official in the future, opening the way for the lasting development of Jiafu in this way, but under the doting of Jia's mother, Jia Baoyu has become a habit of skipping classes and playing greedily.
Jia Yuanchun saw that the road of being an official could not be followed, so he started with Jia Baoyu's lifelong eventsFrom this moment on, it was destined that his marriage would be a political sacrificeLin Daiyu, Jia Yuanchun will not consider it at all, and regardless of the kinship ethics between her and Jia Baoyu, from the background, although Lin Daiyu is talented, she has no background.
Therefore, the marriage between the two is not beneficial to Jiafu, and furthermore, from Lin Daiyu herself, as she herself said, she started taking medicine from the time she ate,Will this physical illness continue to the next generation for Jiafu after marrying Jia Baoyu? This is an issue that must be considered, in addition, there is the subsequent management of Jia Fu.
If Jia Baoyu marries Sister Lin, after the renewal of Jiafu, will Lin Daiyu's physical fitness be able to help Jia Baoyu manageSo after several trade-offs, Jia Yuanchun decided to let Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai marry.
This may be the only way to keep Jiafu brilliant, from the perspective of origin, the two are the right match, it is a good relationship, from the perspective of personal ability, Xue Baochai, who grew up under family education, must be Jia Baoyu's right-hand man in the futureIn this case, the comedy in the eyes of everyone, the tragic marriage in the eyes of the newlyweds, is carried out like this.
But not long after getting married, Jia Baoyu abandoned Xue Baochai and left, just because of one factHis feelings for Baochai have exceeded his imaginationIn other words, he was attracted to Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai at the same time, but the balance was still biased towards Sister Lin, whom he loved deeply.
Responsibly speaking, with just a little bit of heart for Baochai, Baoyu can spend his life, but he doesn't want to live up to Xue Baochai, who is affectionate and righteous to him, and he doesn't want to live up to Sister Lin, who he loves deeply, so running away is the best choice.
Judging from the follow-up development, Jia Baoyu's behavior is actually not at fault, and if he broke off the connection with Jiafu earlier, he would be able to suffer less sin when the court raided his house later, and maybe there would be a chance to escapeJia Baoyu himself may have seen the future of Jiafu at that time.