People take food as the sky, this is a common saying of the Chinese, and it is also a kind of wisdom. Eating is not only an act to meet physiological needs, but also a way of socializing, a cultural embodiment, and an attitude towards life. When eating, you can see the nature of a person, and you can also tell whether two people are compatible or not. What do you think? Listen to me slowly.
Some people only care about eating enough for themselves, regardless of whether others have eaten well or not. They will rush to pick up the vegetables and not share them with others, or pick the parts they like and leave the bad ones for others. They will eat quickly, regardless of image or politeness, as long as they are comfortable. Such people are often selfish, do not feel sorry for their lovers, do not think about each other, and only think about their own interests. Think about it, if you were with such a person, would he do the same to you in other ways? Will he help you in your difficult times, or will he only think about himself? Will he take care of you when you're sick, or will he just bother you? Do you still dare to associate with such a person?
When some people eat, they will take the initiative to serve each other dishes for the sake of each other, or let each other eat first. They pay attention to each other's preferences, try different dishes, and share their feelings. They will eat in moderation, will not waste, will not be greedy, will maintain a certain moderation. Such people tend to be kind, will care about their lovers, will give for each other, and will consider the feelings of both parties. Think about it, if you were with such a person, would he do the same to you in other ways? Will he be there for you when you're happy, or will he just be indifferent? Will he comfort you when you're upset, or will he just blame? Don't you want to associate with such a person?
Some people talk to each other during meals, talk about various topics, and exchange ideas. They will pay attention to each other's lives, they will greet each other's work, and they will share each other's interests. They will tell their own stories, they will listen to each other's stories, and they will understand each other's feelings. They will tell funny jokes, discuss meaningful issues, and make in-depth points. Such people are often smart, will respect their lovers, will communicate with each other, and will consider the three views of both parties. Think about it, if you were with such a person, would he do the same to you in other ways? Will he answer you when you have questions, or will he just be perfunctory? Will he support you when you have an idea, or will he just oppose it? Don't you want to associate with such a person?
When some people eat, they will have a bad attitude towards the waiter, they will be picky about the food, and they will be dissatisfied with the environment. They will shout at the waiter and not say please and thank you, or lash out at the waiter's mistake and give no chance. They will be picky about the taste, portion, hygiene, etc., and will constantly complain or ask for a return without giving any reason. They will be impatient with the noise, dirtiness, crowding, etc., and will constantly go crazy, or ask for a change of position without any consideration. Such people tend to be rude, do not respect others, do not get along with each other, and do not consider the feelings of others. Think about it, if you were with such a person, would he do the same to you in other ways? Will he forgive you when you do something wrong, or will he just scold? Will he help you when you are in trouble, or will he just laugh at you? Do you still dare to associate with such a person?
Eating is a small thing, but it's also a big thing. When eating, you can see a person's eating appearance clearly, and you can also see a person's appearance. How to eat, how to look, whether two people are suitable or not, you will know after a meal. I hope you can find someone who can eat and get along with you and live a happy life.