There are many people in this world, and Ningman is no exception, always seeing those things that others have but they don't have, such as stable jobs, high salaries, and high education, which are the happiness of others.
Every time I try a little bit harder, I want to see the results, and I keep looking back on my previous failures, regretting that I never gave my all to win once.
I rarely look back at the happiness I already have: an emotionally stable lover, healthy parents, a baby who will soon be met. These are priceless in their own right.
Don't let the pace of others disrupt your own rhythm and lifestyle, everyone comes to the world is a kind of happiness.
When you are envious of others, you yourself are actually the scenery in the eyes of others. Instead of wasting energy envying others, it is better to actively find your own happiness.
Life is not in the eyes of others but in one's own heart, happiness is felt, not compared with others, kidnapping other people's views with one's own happiness, this is probably a person's most stupid behavior.
How to find your own happiness?
Live in the moment
Live in the moment, learn to appreciate every moment in life, and feel the beauty in life. Don't always worry about the past and the unknowns of the future.
As a philosopher once said, "The past is gone, the future is yet to come, and all we can grasp is the present." ”
Take your own pace
We are the ones at the helm of our own lives, and on the way to finding our own happiness, we should avoid stop-and-go and half-heartedness.
Just like the shortest straight line between two points, as long as we go all the way towards our goal and do not be induced by external objects to deviate from the course, we can reach the end point as quickly as possible.
Know how to be sufficient
There is no uniform standard of life, and the same is true for happiness, everyone is a unique individual.
Life should bloom in different colors, flowers have the beauty of flowers, trees have tall trees, mountains have the majesty of mountains, grass has the charm of grass, it is happiness to be able to eat and dress every day, it is very happy to be able to go to work today, and it is very happy to buy a favorite clothes.
Life is like drinking water, knowing oneself and being happy, in the final analysis, life is just a process of pleasing oneself.
Other people's lives look glamorous, but they may not be suitable for you, just live happily by yourself, and making yourself happy is the greatest ability of a person.
May you and I both live in the moment and live in our own happiness.