For some girls, talking about money seems to be an embarrassing topic.
I also thought so before, like most people's thoughts, I think talking about money is too vulgar, or I am afraid that others will say that it is a money worshipper.
But as time went by and some of the things I experienced, I slowly changed my mind.
When I was a child, I would be impatient with my mother to buy something, because every time I bought an object, my mother would bargain with the store.
Sometimes it takes a long time to stalemate because of a dime or two, and at that time, I felt that my mother was wasting time for this money.
Now I understand that in the era of poverty, it is not easy for a mother to be in charge, and a dime or two is money. In addition, the market is not like the current shopping platform with a clear price.
The price of the goods reported by the small traders was already higher than the value of the goods, and at that time it was simply a waste of money not to bargain.
When I first started working, in order to maintain a good relationship with my colleagues, I was afraid to speak my mind directly.
At that time, the salary was low, and I spent 50 yuan to buy a very favorite storable mobile phone charging cable, but once after lending it to a colleague, due to her improper use, the charging cable was forcibly damaged.
She didn't say sorry after she got it back, although Ningman was very angry and distressed, but after all, she didn't ask her for compensation, because she was afraid that talking about money would hurt the feelings between colleagues.
Thinking about it now, I still feel that I was so stupid at that time.
First of all, the most that relationship with that colleague is the intersection of work, there is no emotion, and furthermore, even if it is a colleague with good feelings, if it damages his own interests, he must make it clear to the other party.
Now Ningman has already changed a lot of perception of money:
Dare to talk about money
No longer because of embarrassment, it is the thing to do dumb lossesAnyone who wants to prostitute in vain will directly refuse, and you can talk about labor remuneration if you pay, and talking about money will not hurt your feelings, but it is the most basic respect for each other;
Experience the fun of making money, in addition to salary, Ningman will continue to try different side jobs, and one more deposit will give you a sense of security.
If you can save, you will save
Shop around for things, especially clothes, the same clothes, the price difference between different merchants will be very large;
Don't shop in special scenes, such as going out to travel, never buy souvenirs in tourist attractions, and bring your own water cup charging treasure when you go out;
Commodities that are not commonly used and are not practical should be purchased with caution. As a result, the monthly expenses have dropped significantly.
Wool can be picked
New user benefits on the platform never miss out, such as buying a few packs of daily necessities in one point. Usually, when you receive a satisfactory product for online shopping, you will write a real product evaluation and get a certain reward.
I used to think it was an act of slamming the door, but now I enjoy itAfter all, it seems that the small money is the most common in our lives, and the income is also considerable.
After daring to talk about money and having more knowledge of money, Ningman not only felt the fun,got rid of the "shame of talking about money" and lived more openly and freely, so, girls, please talk about money boldly.
Whether in friendship, love or family, work or life,Love yourself more, after all, firewood, rice, oil and salt, or poetry and distance, we all need moneyOnly by talking boldly about money can we go further.