**10,000 Fans Incentive Plan
The ancients said: "The human heart is unpredictable, and the sea is difficult to measure." Someone smiles at you on the face, but behind the scenes, they are all calculating; Words flatter you, turn around and scold you.
It makes you feel the complexity of the human heart, as if you are in a fog, it is difficult to read the human heart, and it is even more difficult to understand human nature.
Don't say it with your mouth, but understand in your heart that this is a kind of wisdom in the world, and it is also a deep insight into human nature. When interacting with people, let go when you should let go, and let go when you should let go. If there is good karma, we will learn to cherish it, and if there is no good karma, we will not force it.
1. Don't take compliments seriously, there are ten ** to coax you
Other people's compliments are like petals in the wind, beautiful but fleeting. "The world is bustling, all for profit; The world is crowded, all for profit. "When someone compliments you, don't take it seriously, because that ten ** is to make you happy.
Those empty compliments may just be out of politeness, maybe for some purpose, or for catering to your preferences, all of which are sugar-coated shells for some kind of benefit.
Clever words, fresh and benevolent. "A true friend will not only say things that please you, but will sincerely point out your shortcomings.
Therefore, we must learn to listen to their words, observe their deeds, judge with reason, and maintain a normal heart. Don't be fooled by the superficial glitz, let alone take it as a true evaluation, so that you can keep a clear mind and do your best to do your best.
Second, the voice of criticism, no need to be angry, ten are true
Good medicine is good for disease, and good advice is good for action. "There's no need to be angry when someone criticizes you, because that's all the real feedback.
Critical rhetoric, like an image in a mirror, sounds harsh and unacceptable, but it allows us to see where we are inadequate.
With copper as a mirror, you can be dressed; With the ancient as a mirror, we can know the rise and fall; With people as a mirror, you can see the gains and losses. "Accepting criticism is the only way to grow.
In the face of criticism, there is no need to be angry, let alone justify, "if there is something, change it, and if there is none, it will be encouraged". We must have the courage to face up to our own shortcomings, humbly accept the opinions and suggestions of others, and constantly improve ourselves, so that we can continue to move forward on the road of life.
3. When and where, learn to let go, as long as you have a clear conscience in everything
Nothing can be said to anyone. "In this complex world, we must learn to let go whenever and where, learn to face everything calmly, and do not need to be too persistent as long as we have a clear conscience in everything.
Sometimes it will make you entangled in trivial matters, and some relationships will make you worry about yourself and can't extricate yourself. However, "the past is forgotten like smoke, and the world is wide without selfishness in the bottom of the heart." Life is short, let go of the burden, let the past pass.
As Tao Yuanming said: "Realize the past without admonishment, and know that the future can be traced." "Learning to let go is not only a kind of tolerance for yourself, but also a relief for life.
No matter what the situation you face, as long as you have a clear conscience, you have nothing to fear. Life is fleeting, but there are too many disturbances, right and wrong have long been indifferent, only learn to let go, you have to be at ease.
The ancients said: "It is difficult for people to know, the rivers and seas are not deep enough, the valleys are not enough to match their dangers, and the floating clouds are not enough to change them." This shows the complexity of the human heart.
In real life, it is difficult for you to fully see through what kind of scheming is hidden behind a person who greets you with a smile. You have no way of knowing what kind of calculations the person who speaks without leaking is in his heart.
Don't say it with your mouth, but understand it in your heart", in the face of complex human nature, stay vigilant, gain insight into people's hearts, and comprehend human nature. At the same time, we should also have a forgiving heart and live our true selves.