Marriage is not child's play: a warning behind a thousand-mile marriage.In the hustle and bustle of the bustling city, 34-year-old Mr. Chen met a female preschool teacher from Guizhou, Ms. Niu, under the guidance of a marriage agency. This seemingly romantic encounter hides a thought-provoking story behind it.
Although the two are separated by thousands of mountains and rivers, the magic of love seems to transcend geographical distance, making them hit it off at first sight and quickly enter the stage of talking about marriage. At the marriage agency's elaborate proposal ceremony, Mr. Chen happily paid Ms. Niu 19A bride price of 80,000 yuan, and 1A service fee of 30,000 yuan to express the expectation and sincerity of this marriage. However, reality is often more complex and difficult than fairy tales.
The turning point occurred in the marriage inspection process. When the doctor asked Ms. Niu to provide a medical examination report from her workplace, she was unable to submit it in time, and her relevant information could not be queried in the computer system. This anomaly aroused the alarm of Mr. Chen and his family, which undoubtedly cast a shadow on the otherwise sweet marriage.
Confused and helpless, Mr. Chen made a difficult decision - to sue for divorce. However, in the court's judgment, it was not found that Ms. Niu had received 19The high bride price of 80,000 yuan was only identified as 6 of them60,000 yuan for the purchase of home appliances and special products. This means that some of Mr. Chen's fortune may have been lost, and the marriage he had hoped for lasted only a few days before it came to an abrupt end.
This real incident is a wake-up call: marriage is not child's play, let alone a spur-of-the-moment decision. Especially when it comes to large monetary transactions, rational thinking is particularly important. In the process of marriage and love, it is not only necessary to have an in-depth understanding of the other party's character, personality and living habits, but also to verify the authenticity of the personal information provided by the other party, so as not to fall into the trap of fraud.
As a bridge to facilitate marriage, marriage agencies should assume the responsibility of verifying information and protecting the rights and interests of customers, rather than ignoring the rigorous verification of the identities and backgrounds of the parties only for the purpose of facilitating marriages. Mr. Chen's experience reminds us that in the pursuit of happiness, every step of the way should not be taken lightly, and every trust needs to be built on a solid foundation of facts.
Marriage is an important decision in life, and it requires emotional investment and intellectual support. In this fast-paced society, everyone should keep a clear head, be cautious about the choice of marriage, not be easily fooled by the superficial sweetness, but make a decision based on in-depth understanding and comprehensive consideration. Only in this way can you truly find your own happiness and avoid falling into the marital quagmire of "pit people".