Every parent in the world expects their children to live a long and healthy life, and they want to be able to accompany their children for a lifetime.
It's just that the world is unpredictable, and while many people are working hard to raise their children, they have also experienced the pain of "white-haired people sending black-haired people".
From the moment the child leaves, their life has fallen into the abyss, and since then, they have lost the joy of the past, and they have lost the precious joy of family.
Such cruelty and despair are the weight of life that many people cannot bear.
Even if we don't want such an accident, but the world is impermanent.
In fact, many times, children leave earlier than their parents, and there are signs, and you must be careful when you notice these signs.
1.It's delicious and lazy to do, and it is empty to sit and eat
Parents always want to give their children the best of everything, and they want them to go smoothly in the future.
Therefore, when the children are young, they put all their time and energy on them, take care of their diet and daily life, and even, when the children grow up, they are still not at ease and become the child's nanny.
It's just that what they didn't expect was that doing so would really harm the child.
Children who have been deprived of the ability to live since childhood, they have no way to face all kinds of ups and downs of life alone, so they can only lie flat under the protection of their parents and become lazy children.
A search on the Internet will reveal many examples of this.
is obviously a successful academic, intelligent and intelligent child, but because of the lack of the will to struggle and the ability to live, he suffers various setbacks when he works alone outside.
They didn't know what to do, and they didn't have the courage to start over, so they had to go home and become the immature babies again.
No matter how much wealth the parents have, they can only sit back and eat in the end.
When children enter a vicious circle of eating and laziness, their good fortune will also be lost.
Therefore, if you want your children to live a long and healthy life, parents must be "ruthless" and give their children the opportunity to exercise, cultivate their life skills, and let them have a strong heart when they are young.
2.Overdraft health, riddled with disease
There was once a saying: "What if you lose your health, what if you win the world?" ”
The most important thing in the world is not money, not power, but health.
There is such a passage on the Internet, which is very touching:When we are young, we trade our health for wealth, and when we grow up, we waste our wealth to rebuild our health. It's just that people only now know how difficult it is to rebuild health.
When many people are young, they work hard in their careers, they strive to do everything perfectly, they care very much about the opinions of their leaders, and they always blame themselves for a little mistake.
Overtime travel became the norm. They don't have time to rest, stay up late for supper, don't sleep well, eat irregularly, and rarely exercise.
They rely on their youth and feel that none of this is important in front of their careers.
When the disease finds them, they will be shocked to realize that they have lost the most important thing, and their parents have also lost their most beloved children.
If you want to truly honor your parents, you must pay attention to your health, live well, and accompany them to old age, so that they can enjoy their old age in the company of their children after a lifetime of hard work.
Some people say that if you love your parents, you must work hard, go to a good school, find a good job, buy a house and a car.
But is that really what parents need?
What they need most is just children, a family joy with children around their knees.
Therefore, in order for parents to have peace of mind, we must accompany them well, be self-reliant, and use our arms to hold up a sky for them.
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