Sister Yang is a divorced 55-year-old woman who works to make ends meet, owns a property but is burdened with nearly 40,000 yuan in foreign debt. After going on a blind date several times, they didn't come together after stumbling. She has a cheerful personality and an ordinary appearance, but she pursues a partner who is hardworking, kind, and genuinely likes her. Sister Yang admitted frankly that her ex's blind date lacked diligence in her life, which eventually led to a breakup. This time, the matchmaker introduced 65-year-old Feng, a widowed blowerSuonahand, life is simple, deposits are limited.
Feng has been playing in the bandSuona, with an annual income of about 1 to 20,000 yuan, barely making ends meet. His requirements for his partner are simple and straightforward, as long as he can cook and be in good health. Feng has lived alone for a long time, and his son has no time to go home to accompany him for the New Year, so he hopes to find a partner who can accompany each other. After the two met under the arrangement of the matchmaker, they were deeply impressed by each other.
Sister Yang and Feng had a good eye when they first met, but after they started to communicate, they found that the other party had no stable income, especially Feng relied on blowingSuonaLivelihood, noPensions, which made Sister Yang worry about the future life of the two. She was worried backRuralThe quality of life after farming will be greatly reduced, and it will not be able to adapt to such a lifestyle. Feng thought that Sister Yang was duplicitous, and had doubts about her careful thinking, and finally decided not to keep it.
Sister Yang wants to find a man who is cheerful, hobbies, hardworking and genuinely likes her. She believes that the most important thing in life is to understand and support each other and work together to create happiness.
Feng has been lonely for a long time and hopes to find a partner who can support each other. He lives a simple life, does not have too many requirements for the quality of life, and only wants to live with his beloved.
Sister Yang and Feng had a disagreement on their expectations for their future lives. Sister Yang was worriedRuralLife cannot meet the needs of his own quality of life, and Feng believes that the two can adapt and establish a new life model together.
In the end, Sister Yang rejected Feng's proposal and decided to continue looking for a suitable partner for herself. And Feng also decided to accept Sister Yang's choice, respected each other's opinions, and ended this blind date trip.
In the context of blind dates, everyone's expectations and requirements for future life will be different, and this difference often becomes an obstacle to the development of the relationship between the two. When choosing the other half, in addition to material conditions, you need to consider each other's life philosophy and emotional fit. Only when the two sides can achieve balance and consensus in all aspects can we have a stable and happy relationship. Looking back on the blind date experience of Sister Yang and Feng, it may trigger us to think about the choice of the other half and treat the marriage and love relationship with a more rational attitude.