After eating at noon today, I turned on the TV to watch a movie, and lay on the sofa for two hours to absorb the two bowls of rice I had just eaten.
Although I have always wanted to gain weight, due to my genetics, my mother has always been unable to eat fat, so my weight has never been able to rise. As a result, when most of my friends had a fat body, I was still the same as when I was in school.
This probably has something to do with the fact that I always use my brain to write, and it is said that most writers can't gain weight, because writing kills a lot of brain cells.
As a result, before I could choose the movie I wanted to watch, my phone suddenly rang.
It shows that the caller is my mother.
Hey, Mom, what's wrong? ”
Have you had any? ”
Her voice sounded a little nervous.
I'm fine. ”
Didn't feel uncomfortable either, or how? ”
Not. I'm all good. Why are you asking me that all of a sudden? ”
Did you finish eating? ”
Yes, I just finished eating. ”
That's good, your brother is okay, right? ”
No, just finished chatting on WeChat, he said he would come to my place for dinner tomorrow. ”
That's good, that's good, so I'm more at ease. ”
Mom, what's wrong with you? ”
"I was just stir-frying and ended up sneezing all the time. So I'm worried that something happened to you, so I'll call you **. ”
I laughed. Rest assured, we're all fine. ”
Then I'm going to eat! ”
At this moment, her voice finally became less nervous.
The moment I hung up the **, I reacted.
My mom is too cute, just because of the sudden continuous sneezing, I wonder if something is wrong with our two brothers who are working hard outside.
It's a bit of a fuss.
When I thought about it, I suddenly felt a warm feeling in my heart, I can't say that feeling, I don't know how to describe it.
In short, I suddenly felt that my mother loved me so much.
It suddenly occurred to me that when you care a lot about one person, you tend to "make a big fuss" because you are worried and worried about another person.
It's like once, I had a dream, in which I dreamed that my mother suddenly sent me a WeChat message saying that she was about to faint and that she was about to call an ambulance.
As a result, that time I tried my best in my dream, and I couldn't call the ambulance **, so I finally woke up in a hurry.
So, I called my mom that night and told her about it. She smiled and said, "You're just worried that I'm not safe at home alone."
In fact, we also know that it is probably just our own "small fuss" and thinking too much.
But often after that, I want to get a confirmation immediately, and I will feel at ease when I confirm that the other party is okay and the other party is fine.
So, "making a big fuss" is proof that I love you.
Most people will have parents who are more or less the same, and they are always weird.
Obviously, the place we are going to is not very far, and it is clear that everything we like to eat and what we want to use can be bought locally.
However, they stubbornly like to help us get everything ready before we go out. Bring everything you can think of, and take everything you can put on it.
In the beginning, we always couldn't figure it out and felt troublesome, because it was very cumbersome and cumbersome to carry these things.
I don't think it makes much sense, as long as I need to buy it again, so I can't understand this kind of behavior.
We think this is "making a big fuss", and it's not going to an alien planet, and it's not going to be gone forever, so why bother so much.
Until one day, we gradually grew up, and we gradually understood that behind that behavior, it was the other party who wanted to express that I love you.
In other words, another person who doesn't love you at all and doesn't care about you probably won't even pay attention to your "big things".
I have a friend who has a very poor memory, and he always forgets everything, and often has to go back to get something once he goes out, either forgetting to take the keys or forgetting to change his shoes.
We always jokingly call him Wang Wuxue, which probably means that he goes out without a brain, and he can't remember any of the things he remembers.
He always defended himself, saying that he was born, and he forgot everything since he was a child, and his memory was probably like this for a lifetime.
Unexpectedly. When Wang has a girlfriend, his brain will be fine.
Always remember to bring a pack of tissues with her, as she needs to use them.
She never orders food with green onions, because she doesn't like to eat it.
Always use hand sanitizer every time you go to the bathroom, because she said she doesn't like men who don't like cleanliness.
Later, we found out.
Wang Wuzhi just couldn't remember those things that he didn't think were so important, and once he realized how important this person was to him, he wouldn't forget it even when he was drunk.
There's a saying that says – if he cares about your words, he will care about your words. Because you care, you remember.
And his girlfriend is even more exaggerated.
It is said that once in the middle of the night, Wang Wudong sent a WeChat message to tell her that he seemed to be sick and felt unwell.
As a result, she rushed to his house overnight, and when he opened the door, he found that she was holding a medicine box in his arms.
She touched his forehead in a panic and asked him if he had a fever, and she didn't know if he was ** unwell, so she simply brought her medicine box over.
You see, which medicine should I take? Well, does this work? His girlfriend asked him nervously.
Wang Wudong later talked to us about this incident, saying that he smiled at the time, sat and watched her smirk, and felt that such a "small fuss" was really cute.
So this kind of care and worry is evidence of love.
Those who regard your business as more important than their own must be the one who cares about you.
I don't know if you've ever tried, can't contact a person, and even think that the other party must have had an accident, right? Then I desperately called **, and I made dozens of calls** in a row, but I was not answered.
You're nervous, you've thought about many possibilities in your head, and you're worried.
Later, the other party finally replied to you**, and you found out that the other party just had a dead phone, or it suddenly broke.
You breathe a sigh of relief, you are relieved.
You also feel as if you are making a bit of a "fuss", obviously you can't get through for a few hours, and you panic like an ant on a hot pot.
You laugh at yourself for being such an idiot, how did you become such a person. Then, in that moment, you suddenly understand that you really love each other.
Thank you to those who "make a big fuss" about themselves because they really love you.
Thank you to the person who made you "make a big fuss", and it is because of this that you feel the feeling of truly loving someone.
I'm a person who likes to record small pieces of life, and I'm good at feeling those subtle emotions and then putting them into words, so I love my identity as a writer.
I never knew if that was good or bad.
It's not good because it means I'm an emotional person who is easily influenced by the outside world. I can't sleep all night because of the little things I worry about. I will also be excited because I am happy once.
And the good thing is that I know how to cherish and feel the temperature that others can't feel.