The communication between parents and children requires wisdom, it does not need a thousand words, it only needs to "point to point".
Many parents mistakenly think that "nagging" is a kind of "love" and a kind of "teaching".
Seeing that the child was moving slowly, he urged: "Hurry up, hurry up, why is it so slow, it's always grinding, and the real ink is ......."”
I was worried that my child would not be suitable for school, so I told him every day: "When I go to school, find a teacher, get along with my classmates, don't fight, listen carefully in class, and don't ......."”
I am also a person from the past, as parents, just rely on our own thinking, and even emotionally educate children, there is no scientific method, it is basically counterproductive, the parent-child relationship will not improve, and it will also delay the child's ** development period!
I suggest that I still find a professional to consult to solve this problem, I came here like this, the child really can't discipline well, we are looking for a good family on the high road, Song Li teacher is a national second-level psychological counselor, specifically for teenagers who are tired of school and psychological counseling, the content is simple to understand, very easy to understand, and can also propose different solutions to different problems of parents.
I learned a lot of family education knowledge from Mr. Song Li, realized my wrong way of education, and finally knew how to get along with my children correctly, and now I am more like friends with my children.
Although it is all out of the good intentions of parents, this kind of "nagging" is actually a kind of disguised pressure, repeating a thing many times, and the result will only backfire and make the child feel disgusted.
Language is one of the most important tools in children's growth and education, and "nagging" will constantly weaken the power of language.
Therefore, instead of chattering and preaching, it is better to guide concisely and concisely, "Baby, we have to go out at 8 o'clock, there are 10 minutes left, and you have to bear the consequences of being late", "Baby, you can be like Little Ali at school, Mom believes in you".
Nagging is the most ineffective education, the simpler the language, the greater the energy transmitted, I hope that parents can have less preaching and more teaching. High Path